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Originally posted by 2013 Parent:
Hi everyone.
I also posted this in the "travel recommendations" area but didn't know if that was really appropriate.
I'm hoping to get some information from the veterans. This is the first season for 2013 and our family with travel ball.
We'll travel to college campuses in Illinois, Indiana, and Iowa, ranging 2-3 hours away from home. Eight tournaments, each Thursday - Sunday.
So, our last name is not Trump, and we'll be dishing out about $400 a week in hotels, and let's not even talk about the gas pump. Each hotel offers a continental breakfast (thanks, Coach!), but we cannot eat out for dinner every night.
If anyone has recommendations on cooler-friendly meal ideas, we would love to hear them. Obviously sandwiches, fruits, and veggie trays will be part of the plan, but we would really appreciate more ideas from folks who've been there.
Thanks everyone!
My son really didn't travel (out of state) until senior summer, though I realize that many of you start this process earlier. When he did, the fees we paid included travel by bus for all of the team, food, the players had to room together, and this greatly cut down on the need for parents to feel the need to be at every game. IMO, I'd much rather spend money on a really good program and have to miss a few games for myself, rather than feel the need to travel with him. Plus college was right around the corner, a huge expense even with a good scholarship.
I would have suggested the same idea as MarkB but you seem to indicate that remaining home is not an option. My thought is that if the player is still too young to go without mom or dad, then he's just not ready. My son traveled frequently in HS to tournies and games without mom or dad, and this really helped in the process of going off to college (several states away).
This is not dis on you, but if parents really can't afford the added expense to travel with the team, can't send him along on his own then don't do it until it really counts, not because everyone else is doing it.
JMO.