Over the years, we see a lot of threads on this site and others about freshman HS and college sons who just aren't getting their fair shake. "Back of the bench without a look" or "coach favors all of the upperclassmen" are often the laments.
Old timers come in and tell the others, "hang in there" and "keep your son positive" and "be ready for your break!"
Well, here is exhibit-A of how it really can be done. Meet Stanford freshman, Alex Blandino...got about 3 ABs in the first 5 weeks of the season on a veteran and nationally ranked Stanford team. He was behind a nearly All American infield...with no apparent opening or crack in the door to slip through.
Alex Blandino named National Player of the Week
Many of us who watched him play in HS were even awfully confused as to why he wasn't getting any time or chances. I cannot imagine how frustrated his parents might have been. In HS, Alex had all of the credentials...all state, all league, player of the year for his area, drafted by the A's. Alex was simply the best HS hitter I have ever seen.
Now he is proving that he can do it. To my knowledge he didn't whine or fuss...he just kept his head down and waited. I was at a game back in late March...which happened to be his last day on the bench...and he was the 'best dang teammate I saw out there.' Popping out of the dugout to 'high-5' teammates coming off the field and his head appeared to be completely 'in the game.' I noticed because I've known him for a few years and I was wondering how he was handling his situation...and I was impressed by his positive body language.
The next day, he got his chance going 2-for-4 with a double and an RBI and he's been on a tear ever since. For a while as the DH, but now as the starting 3B. Just yesterday, after hitting 3 HRs in the first 2 games against ASU he was moved from 8th in the lineup to 4th. In half the playing time, he now leads Stanford in HRs with 6, 1st in SLG% at .717 and is 2nd on the team in AVG at .350.
My point is...the advice often given here is solid and while I doubt he reads this site for any advice, Mr. Blandino believed in himself, took a positive approach and HE WAS READY! This article should be revisited every time one of us are feeling down about our son's predicament...obstacles can and will be overcome with the right mindset!
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