According to some people I've spoken with, many parents/kids fudge their numbers to make them look more appealing to scouts/coaches. It can be anything from a increase in statistics, physical size, favorable editing of highlight video, grades, etc.
My old school way of thinking is not to exaggerate anything, and that honesty is the best policy. For instance my son is listed as 6' 4" and 190lbs. In reality he is almost 6' 5" and close to 6' 6" in cleats. He is also 197lbs the last time we weighed him. He naturally wants me to change the info, but he can drop 5 pounds in a weekend, and he is not yet 6' 5" barefoot.
Parents, coaches and others say "he is bigger than 6' 4" when they see him in uniform, but until he reaches 6' 5" barefoot, I question whether to list him any taller.
However I know parents who list their kid as taller and heavier for showcases and tourneys. For instance at the recent PG event, a friend of mine listed his MIF son as 6' 1" 185lbs even though he is only 5' 10" 165lbs. The kid is a good player, but I'd think a coach would assume it was a different kid (i.e. wrong # uniform) if he were watching him play in a game. Granted this is a big exaggeration compared with adding an inch or 5 lbs, but for some reason this father thinks he is doing the right thing by his son adding 3 inches and 20 lbs.
Another example is stats. I've heard more than one coach say any batting average or top MPH is to be taken with a grain of salt because parents/kids always claim higher numbers. My son has hit 88 on a Stalker and I never tell anyone he has done more. Yet based on how some coaches think most parents fudge the numbers, they probably think I added 3-5 mph to his top number. Of course I have it on video and in writing from the showcase he did it at, but it almost makes you feel as if you must carry around proof because of what other parents might be doing.
What I am wondering is how pervasive this practice is, and does it hurt or pay off?
Is it like steroids, to where if you do not get caught you get away with it, and maybe have a coach more interested in your kid. Sure he will want to watch him play and the kid will have to perform. However if it helped to get the coach interested in the first place, might it pay off compared with another kid who is being totally honest.
What is your take on this subject?
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