Coach Knight,
Sorry if I offended you in any way. I thought from the get-go that's what you meant, but I had to use your phrase to raise a point.
Dad04,
Sometimes hearts are over rated and reality sets in.
Tough call, Ivy or SEC. Do you really think you could lose either way?
Maybe it comes down to another intangible, the "offer". I'm sure many families rate this high on the priority list. My son, a pitcher, may have been able to go to many schools in the country and receive some type of minimal scholarship, but there was no way I could afford them, so most were off the list before they were on the list, regardless of where it stood athletically or academically. Maybe the issue is distance, maybe family health, maybe just peace of mind. There is a balance that every family has to answer to and as another family we have no right to question anothers decision. However, at times on this site we will offer our unsolicited opinions