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I apologize if this is not the proper place for this question but-I thought that 'earning a letter' had some type of significance, that a certain number of games must be played or something...

My son told me anyone who played, whether it was a Sophomore called in to catch or pitch one game or Juniors that played as little as 2 games is getting one. He doesn't seem to be interested in going to the dinner planned for the event & said its no big deal.

Have things changed since I was in high school (20 years ago Red Face?


I feel like he should go, I try to emphasize to all my kids that there are only a few times in life where we have the chance to be recognized for our achievements. I think teens sometimes take these things for granted, I know I did a few times when I was young.
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How does the actions of others affect the significance of the letter that he earned. You didnt say how old your son is or if he is a starter, but fromt the context, it sounds like he would be a big contributor to the team. So my question is, how does the playing time of the other kids have any affect on what he feels he earned?

My son has similar thinking as yours so maybe it is a young thing. He is a freshman. Two other freshmen made varsity and he was one of two to make JV. He thought it was pretty special. Then before the season started they brought up 5 more freshman. Now he says making JV isnt so special,but I dont get how the others making it take away from what he accomplished. He still worked hard and won the starting right field spot and number two pitcher,
I have no idea what the written rules are. But I did what I wanted to do. If I brought a player up and he was on our team he got a letter. If he was on the varsity I could careless how much he played or didnt play he got a letter. How can you tell every player on your team they are just as important to the teams success as the next and then turn around and tell them they dont deserve a letter? You mean that guy in the bullpen that works harder than anyone on the team doesnt deserve a letter because he didnt play enough games?

If I thought for one minute I had a player on my team that got upset because one of this team mates got a letter and somehow that diminished the importance of him getting his letter I would sent that kid packing in a heart beat. They run the bases while your doing situations. They man the field while your taking bp. They do everything you do except play as many innings in games.

If you make my team and your on the team your going to get a letter. If the school told me I couldnt do it I would do it anyway. Some kids have letters and letter jackets and then other players on your team do not? We all get them for being on the team and playing a part in its success or none of us get them. Other people can do whatever they want to do thats up to them. But I would never in a million years treat my players differently based on how many innings they played or games they started. They are on the team and they are a part of the team. And they are all equally important in my eyes and they should be in each others eyes as well. If not there is a problem imo. You should want your team mates to be rewarded just like you.
As things have changed over many years, When I played way to many years ago, we had two sets of letters. One was for the letterman's sweater which you got for being on the team, the second was for the varsity jacket, which you only got if you played 50% or more as a starter. You never let your girlfriend wear the Varsity Jacket, but would let her wear the letterman's sweater.
Coach May is absolutely correct!

Furthermore, our older son's college team had "rules" for awarding a letter...and that 30+ year mega-traditional coach whose teams still wear the same uniforms as 30 years ago...awarded letters to players who got into only a game or two.

Why? Because they contributed in many other ways and they deserved it. All for one, one for all!
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Thank you all for the info! Perhaps I worded my question the wrong way.

Our Coach is new. In previous years, there were players who did not get letters so I assumed that there was some sort of standard, like how many games played etc.

I'd hate to portay my son as someone who begrudges a teammate, for this is not the case at all. In fact he has stayed after many games to help teammates who asked for swing advice.



I'm sure if I tell him he should go out of respect for his coach & team, he won't have a problem with it. I guess I took the wrong approach by telling him he should go because it was 'an honor' I should know by now he frowns upon anything that isn't strictly about playing the game.

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