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I'm with Fenway on this, if HC doesn't, can't or tells you to work with RC, you are not #1 and playing time will be minimal.
I don't think thats exactly what he is saying. I think he's just saying that the HC should/will get involved at 'crunch time.' The OP was asking a question about his 2014 son, so he's pretty early in the process and not many HC's will be significantly involved at this point.
Most kids recruited to Stanford, for example, will have nearly all of it go through the recruiting coordinator. HC will usually close the deal.
Our older son was recruited almost exclusively by the HC, but he also lives about 5 blocks away from us and even he told us that the RC is the guy who figures out who they go after.