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Our coach had a kid on the HS team. A junior when mine was a freshman. He started at SS and shouldn't have. Everybody knew and there were whispers in the stands. Coach ended up costing himself two state championships because of sloppy SS play and other guys being out of position as a result. One a real heartbreaker. If the coach wants to do a disservice to his team, that's his business. There really isn't anything you can do about it

Assuming there is actual a politics problem, the only advice is to go to the games, keep your mouth shut, and clap. When there is a bonehead play in center and it costs you a big game you will know that the coach was wrong and your kid will have the last laugh in CF in his college uniform.

What is likely happening: Your son had a more mature bat as a freshman but the other kid was a better defender. The other kid now has a decent enough bat to play varsity and is still the superior defender. The bat is king.

Questions for you - How big is your son? Does he play for a top 50 travel program? How hard does he throw? And how well does he hit verified 85+mph pitching?

Interesting story to give insight.  4 or 5 games into the season we are playing one of our conference rivals that beat us twice last year.  We had just beat them the day before on their new turf field.  So we are home and down 2-1 in the 6th.  My son comes up and hits a 2 run homer to take the lead.  In the top of the 7th, the CF makes an error (on a ball my 2027 son catches every day) to allow 2 runs and we lose. 

  1. @BB and BB posted:

Thanks for the reply posts.  He has played in front of D-1 college scouts this summer and played well.  I guess the worst part is the politics.  The whole team knows what is going on and so do a lot of the parents.

And by the way, he plays CF for a very good club program that would beat his HS team 7-8 times out of 10.

Most travel teams would beat high school teams. High school rosters are from a small area. Travel rosters can be from anywhere. The junior year roster of my son’s high school team had twelve players go on to college ball at some level. Three went P5. My son’s travel team would have kicked the crap out of them every time. Everyone went P5 except the kid whose chose an Ivy over Duke.

My son was first team all conference shortstop as a soph. He was moved to center the next season. The new shortstop wasn’t as sold defensively as he. I forgot to complain. The team won the conference his junior and senior year.

I forgot to bitch in college ball when he was moved from center to right. All the outfielders could go get ‘em. He had the strongest arm.

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@BB and BB posted:

Interesting story to give insight.  4 or 5 games into the season we are playing one of our conference rivals that beat us twice last year.  We had just beat them the day before on their new turf field.  So we are home and down 2-1 in the 6th.  My son comes up and hits a 2 run homer to take the lead.  In the top of the 7th, the CF makes an error (on a ball my 2027 son catches every day) to allow 2 runs and we lose.

Here’s a major mistake you’re making. You’re comparing your son to teammates. You will not make any friends doing this. Even if some agree with you. You should only compare your son to the player he strives to be tomorrow and next year.

@BB and BB posted:

Interesting story to give insight.  4 or 5 games into the season we are playing one of our conference rivals that beat us twice last year.  We had just beat them the day before on their new turf field.  So we are home and down 2-1 in the 6th.  My son comes up and hits a 2 run homer to take the lead.  In the top of the 7th, the CF makes an error (on a ball my 2027 son catches every day) to allow 2 runs and we lose.

The only interesting insight this story gives is proof that you came here looking for validation that your son should be starting and not asking for advice/opinions. The homerun and the error are completely unrelated. The homerun would have happened if your son were in CF or not. If the SS made the error and you lost 2-1 would the story matter any more or less?

There is a difference between saying here's the situation - thoughts? And continually trying to prove your son should be starting in CF. If you want to vent, say that. You asked for advice.

Listen to the advice of the many seasoned vets who have gone thru similar situations or at the very least know the right way to approach the situation.

I'm sure your kid is good. The kid in center is probably benefiting from his parents involvement with the program. The coaches favorite comes in many shapes forms and sizes. Sometimes it's the kid of the booster, sometimes it's the kid of the attractive mom who bakes cupcakes for the coaches and flirts, sometimes it's the best player.

The mature conversation is your son going to the coach and saying: Hey I was your starting CF last year, I thought I played pretty well, why'd you move me to RF and what do I need to work on to prove I can stick in center?

The answer may just be - Johnny is a better defender than you, he's a little faster blah blah blah. He needs to listen and follow the advice. If he thinks your son needs to get faster, listen to him because college coaches can see the same thing. If you think he's blowing smoke then I guess his opinion never mattered anyway.

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Plus, anyone who has ever watched a HS baseball team has seen something exactly like this.  And you never may find out what the coach's reasoning was.  I perfectly understand your obsessing about it right now - I know I did.  So it probably won't help if I tell you that in four years, you won't care.

@BB and BB posted:

I'm just going to lean on them and let HS be what it is.

But let me say again, don't just lean on them, be proactive, ask to have a conversation about your son, now - the fall is a good time - just to get yourself straight for the coming year.

This is not always true, especially before junior year.  Many travel coaches assume parents know this and therefore don't explain it.

In a quality travel program one of the first things that occurs is a sit down with the player and the coaches. The player presents lists of schools. The list gets broken down to doable, reach and unrealistic Then the coaches inventory their college contacts from the list.

@BB and BB posted:

My 2024 started on varsity in CF as a freshman.  Made all the plays he should have and made some plays no one else could have.  He is the best athlete on the team.  He started the season batting cleanup and performed well.

His sophomore year he took all the preseason reps in CF but when another 2024 (who played JV as a freshman) joined the team 2 weeks before the season started he was automatically awarded the starting CF job.  (The family provides the uniforms and is a big booster) There was no competition for the CF position and my son played RF all season (unless the CF was pitching). My son is a legit D-1 prospect and is one of 2 kids on the team that will be recruited by D-1 (catcher is the other)

My question is, going into his junior year, how should I handle the situation.  Should I talk to the coach?  Should I advise my son to talk to the coach? Should I just let the bull crap politics play out?  He wants to play CF and is better with a much higher ceiling.

Thoughts?

@BB and BB: I reread your post and can relate. What my son liked about HS baseball were his teammates, the competition and the rivalries. In HS, I don't know if "politics" was involved as much as odd coaching decisions that would make one scratch his head. If your son's goal is to play college ball, he probably (if not already) should play on a visible travel team that can highlight his strengths (which you believe is CF) to supplement HS.  As for HS, very true, it is important to BE in the lineup.

My son played American Legion in summer, then supplemented his visibility by participating in showcases that had coaches in attendance from schools he was interested. (Headfirst & Showball initially, then "college specific camps." )

So here's what did we see/hear in his HS career of interest:

1) He played 3B for almost all his JR year.  I once overheard two scouts sitting in front of me in the stands commenting that RipkenFanSon was the fastest runner they clocked in the state (he was a 6.4 runner). "What the _ _ _ _ is he playing third base?"

2) After regular SS (a jr) made several errors and had no range son's senior year, RipkenFanSon was eventually moved to SS later in season, and team defense solidified.

3) During son's sophomore year he was "DH-ed" for. (His college teammates teased him on that one). Oh..son never pitched. He was DH-ed for as a position player.

The "postscript" for the above (#3)  is that son graduated from college a few years ago as having the second most hits in school history (school has been playing 157 years), and sixth most hits  all-time in the conference (Which has almost been around that long!).

On the plus, I guess, son was penciled in to start in 6 different positions (no P, C, 1B) on his varsity team.  The versatility actually landed the offer in college which was looking for an "athletic MI who could play the OF. " He played either SS or CF on Legion. For showcases he would usually bring both gloves.

So in summary, getting playing time and starting is key in HS. I never said anything to the coaches. Your son should strive to make all the plays that come to him. Put together quality ABs. As for you, enjoy the season and root for the team! Colleges will better place your son where "he fits" or where a need is. If he showcases,  most outfield reps in skill evaluations are from CF. The coaches/scouts then can gauge how your son can track down balls. Good luck!

@2022NYC posted:

Where's adbono? I feel this thread is not validated without his opinion on the challenges of HS players playing D1 due to the transfer portal.

  We are awfully cute today aren’t we?!?  Since you asked, I have been on the baseball field all day today evaluating college pitchers and will be doing the same for the next 7-10 days.
  In the case described by the OP, it’s a simple risk/reward analysis. And the risk greatly outweighs the reward. The answer is simple. Do nothing. Things will work out  - as most people have said.
  In response to your barb, the D1 situation is the worst in areas where D1 baseball is the most competitive. Which happens to be where I live.  I don’t think the portal has near the impact in regions where D1 baseball isn’t as good as the SEC, ACC, and the Big12. Not many players go into the portal with an eye on the MAAC. However, I actually believe that mid-majors are the most realistic target if you are hell bent on D1. Unless you have draft talent.
  Are you happy now?

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