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Originally posted by PA Dino:
We are all disabled. Some disabilities are more visible than others. The opportunity to create something more powerful than a winning season for an entire group of young men is what slipped through this coach’s hands. Perhaps he couldn’t figure out how he was going to pull it off. It probably took more courage for him to cut Anthony than it would have taken to keep him.
Often the “disabled” person’s parents are most offended because they are used to fighting for a chance. Notice Anthony isn’t offended so much as challenged. He wants to earn it. Anthony gets it. He knows position in life is many times unmerited. People get jobs, wealth and they get opportunity even if they are not the best option. Anthony wants no special treatment. No special treatment…..it is like water to him, a necessary element.
Ironically, the coach has most likely done him a favor. By erecting another barrier, serving him a disappointment, highlighting his disability this coach has fueled the fire of a determined spirit. Don’t feel sorry for Anthony. Feel sorry for the coach. He was put in a really tight spot. He was unable to overcome his disability.
Amy Palmiero Winters
No offense but I don't read this as any 'disability' by the coach. The kid was given an opportunity to try out for the team, he failed because he pretty much couldn't field his position, and he will be given another opportunity next year.
You say he highlighted his disability by not selecting him for the team but what would artificially selecting him because of his 'inspirational ability' be? To me doing just that highlights his disability more than anything else. The kid doesn't seem to use his disability as an excuse, he himself said that he didn't want to make the team if he didn't earn the right. The only people that seem to be making a big deal out of this is the media and, to a lesser extent, his mother. I understand his mom being upset but the media is just using this to get readership or viewers.
The fact of the matter is this. The coach had a decision to make. To me he made the right one. What would you think if a blind kid tried out for the team? Or one that has a severe learning disability? What about one in a wheelchair? You say we all have disabilities but does that mean that we all deserve to be on the team?
All the coach can do is make the tryout process fair for everyone and then make the selection based upon what HE thinks is best for the team. There is a point that could be made that hard work, like this kid has done, could bring you success but it can also give the boys the impression that hard work and talent can be suborned to personal favoratism and outside pressure.
It would have been nice if he made the team but if he didn't deserve to be on the team then the coach would have done him no favors at all. Ultimately that would have caused him more harm than good.