I saw the only recruited player to a mid D1 sit all senior year in HS. I thought it was odd and showed poor judgment by the HS coach. So, the college coach was wrong recruiting that player? And the HS coach was right about his abilities?
Please explain. I’m not as well versed in baseball as you guys.
@RHPitcherparent posted:I saw the only recruited player to a mid D1 sit all senior year in HS. I thought it was odd and showed poor judgment by the HS coach. So, the college coach was wrong recruiting that player? And the HS coach was right about his abilities?
Please explain. I’m not as well versed in baseball as you guys.
So this player went on to have a great career at a DI school? I recall a softball player whose dad told everyone that would listen that his daughter had committed to Alabama as a freshman. He continued that story despite the fact that it was obvious that this young lady was not a DI player. In fact, she sat on the bench and he railed that she was going to Alabama anyway. LOL She didn't even play DIII. She wasn't good enough. The last time he told the story, she had changed her mind and was going to Texas. That is why she didn't sign NLI day.
The player you speak of did sign a NLI on that date? Correct?
Yes coachB25. He’s playing at a mid-D1 as a freshman next year. All signed. Sat on the bench his entire senior year in HS and didn’t play one inning. I thought maybe since he was already recruited, the HS was giving other kids playing time to be seen? Not sure. Team only won half their games.
RHPitcherparent, my son is also a D1 commit to a top 15 program and has been treated the same way you speak of since his freshman year. He got committed from his travel team and never played a varsity game. His travel teammates pick at him that he can commit to a D1, but can't make varsity. He was the only D1 kid on the team. Some coaches are just idiots. Most of the kids that play varsity on my son's team kiss the coaches ass, parents kiss his ass, families sponsor the team or give money to the booster's. My son will not do any of that and has earned everything on his own without any Highschool help. A good showcase team is well worth the price. The D1 coaches put more stock in travel coaches than Hs coaches now due to issues like this. I hoped HS would be a good experience, but it sucks. Kids with good HS coaches and teams are very lucky. My son just sits out and deals with it, knowing that college is the only thing that matters and is right around the corner next year!
There is a kid pitching at this moment in the NCAA vs South Carolina who hardly pitched in HS. I mean like 12 innings or so SR season coaches choice.
Pdogg1 yes, I’m sure the player didn’t do the right political stuff to butter up the coach. Or fund the coach’s feeble attempt to make a living with side lessons. Good practice for office politics though if the kids ends up in the business world
@old_school posted:There is a kid pitching at this moment in the NCAA vs South Carolina who hardly pitched in HS. I mean like 12 innings or so SR season coaches choice.
Best game of the weekend so far!
@RHPitcherparent posted:I saw the only recruited player to a mid D1 sit all senior year in HS. I thought it was odd and showed poor judgment by the HS coach. So, the college coach was wrong recruiting that player? And the HS coach was right about his abilities?
Please explain. I’m not as well versed in baseball as you guys.
Sometimes there are discipline, attitude and/or academic issues parents and fans aren’t made aware. Sometimes the story the player and parent tells is a cover rather than the truth.
- @CoachB25 posted:
So this player went on to have a great career at a DI school? I recall a softball player whose dad told everyone that would listen that his daughter had committed to Alabama as a freshman. He continued that story despite the fact that it was obvious that this young lady was not a DI player. In fact, she sat on the bench and he railed that she was going to Alabama anyway. LOL She didn't even play DIII. She wasn't good enough. The last time he told the story, she had changed her mind and was going to Texas. That is why she didn't sign NLI day.
The player you speak of did sign a NLI on that date? Correct?
There was a father like this with a kid on our high school team. The trouble was high school coaches were constantly screwing the kid. He went to three high schools in four years. He didn’t get on the field often. The number of major conference offers flowing in was incredible. Except signing day came and went. The kid proceeded to get screwed walking on in college. In three years he attended a D2, a JuCo and a D3. In total he had a 7+ ERA in about 10 innings.
The reality was the kid was a dominant LL stud on the mound and at the plate. Dad never accepted the kid wasn’t a stud in the following years. He got to varsity. But pitchers don’t have much success throwing 83-85 down Main Street. The kid had no command at all. 5’9” pitchers aren’t the first ones coaches look for.
RJM, I am sure that is the case for some. Mine has straight A's with a 4.5 Gpa and ranks 3rd in his class. Not to mention he sits 88-89 and tops out in the 92 range. He has never had any attitude issues with any coaches he has ever played for. Plain and simple, my son has and never will kiss any coaches ass or have me pay his way to play. He just sits back and watches his team lose almost all of their games and keeps working on his time to be ready for showcase, where he plays on one of the top teams in the country.
TPM, I've missed all the conversations we had in years past. I hope all is well with son. My son ended up a lawyer (yuck!)
@TPM posted:I understand this post. I have seen and heard things you wouldn't believe.
I actually think some dads need to stay home, they just take it too seriously.
@pdogg1 posted:RJM, I am sure that is the case for some. Mine has straight A's with a 4.5 Gpa and ranks 3rd in his class. Not to mention he sits 88-89 and tops out in the 92 range. He has never had any attitude issues with any coaches he has ever played for. Plain and simple, my son has and never will kiss any coaches ass or have me pay his way to play. He just sits back and watches his team lose almost all of their games and keeps working on his time to be ready for showcase, where he plays on one of the top teams in the country.
I didn’t post there aren’t any kids who get screwed. But I’d guess 95% of those complaining their kid got screwed didn’t. If it wasn’t about the parent seeing their kid’s talent level differently than the coach as parents/fans we’re often not privy to what occurs in practice and sometimes in school (behavior).
Here's the thing about baseball. At each level, it less about the kids separating themselves from the competition than the parents separating the kids from the competition. Once you get to the top - the parents are cool. Baseball is fundamentally mental.
@pdogg1 posted:Some coaches are just idiots.
Yep.
There is something oddly comforting about signs of things returning to normal...
... a HSBBW thread turning into a coach bashing thread 
Amen. Coach bashing in a environment with empathetic and sympathetic parents is therapeutic. Luckily the HS coaches in here have thick skin and seem to understand the value of a parent venting. Hopefully this rant will release some stress and they can move on. Here is my selfish rant: I hope the kid does well in his playoff game this week. My work week sucks and I am moving a lot around to attend the game and I will be somewhat annoyed if my kid sits, but I will eventually and hopefully quickly get over it as 1. I am not at work 2. Watching a HS baseball game where a year ago not having that opportunity. 3. The weather will feel like summer baseball 4. There will certainly be "that parent" in the backstop area and will remind me how much worse I could be.
@Bum posted:TPM, I've missed all the conversations we had in years past. I hope all is well with son. My son ended up a lawyer (yuck!)
Wow Bum, unbelievable you joined in. Often wonder about how things turned out. Good for your son! Mine still in baseball, coaching. It's his passion and he loves it, even though there it's not an easy job.
Well, it seems I hit a hornets nest with a bat here. Yes, good for us to all vent like old times. The kid I mentioned used baseball to get into a top ten ranked HA school. So he’ll probably be laughing all the way to the bank in a few years. I do feel for coaches. I tried it once and it was like trying to heard cats. It’s a tough job navigating so many players, personalities, and being under constant pressure to win or be fired. Thanks coaches for all you do out there!
“Herd” cats. State college grad here.