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It was interesting to see how people interpreted and responded to the original post. The real concern (in general as a topic, not my son) is what happens when a player is put in a situation (varsity too soon) that may be over is head?
While you never know, I believe if my son failed and got sent down, he would come back next year with the attitude he's been there, understands the challenge and can only improve on previous results.
RJM, I'll address your question based on our experience. 2B and I had this discussion over the weekend. He was brought up to varsity as a young (13), average-sized 8th grader last year. It wouldn't have happened at a bigger school with a stronger program, but the head coach and two seniors thought they could use his bat, so he got the opportunity. At first, it was a completely no-pressure situation. If he did well, great. If he didn't, he's just a little kid. For the first 13 games at DH, he hit .323. Once he saw that he could really do well, he started pressing and went into an immediate slump. He had never been in a true hitting slump before. It was really, really tough on him for a few weeks, but the head coach never wavered in his belief that he belonged at that level. He bounced back and went 2 for 3 in the last regular season game, and had a fantastic summer. This season as a freshman, and with a new head coach, he is the starting 2B and went 4 for 7 in our home opener - a weekend double header against a #3 state-ranked team. Amazingly, our team, with three freshman starters and only three senior starters, split with this team, made up entirely of big, strong, scary, hairy juniors and seniors. There may have been one sophomore.
Anyway, 2B's struggles last year, plus working hard over the summer and coming back bigger, better and stronger, have helped build a confidence and maturity on the field that I've never seen before. It's early in the season, but things are looking pretty good right now. Last year was really hard, but he says it was worth it. Next time he hits a rough spot, he'll know without a doubt that he can work his way out of it.
If your son gets the same opportunity, I hope he gets as much out of it.
And a side note...we had two senior non-starters quit the team this weekend. I don't know why, but my guess is playing time. They are fine young men. We'll miss them.