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Originally posted by TRhit:
HighCheese
great points---if it were not for baseball many kids would not go to college---take advantage of the talents you have to move forward
TR, I would imagine we can all agree kids that are going to BC, Duke, Fordham and Richmond aren't the ones who wouldn't go to college if it were not for baseball.
But, there are schools that isn't necessarily true. I do think it is less true in baseball than other sports, though.
What I read CD and TR to both be saying, just using different approaches, is to go where you will be well coached.
While BC and Duke may have been at the bottom of the ACC at one time, the efforts of Pete Hughes and now Coach Aoki have made big difference at BC(likely to make the ACC playoffs and not a dormat, at all.) From what TPM posted, the same sounds true at Duke.
In my view, the common recruiting mistake most of us make, as Fungo capably pointed out, is not to really be able to project well what happens when the recruiting ends and the competition begins. What we project, we do with those "Rosey" glasses.
While I agree with CD that a focus on winning is important, I also agree with TR that a history of not winning may not be pivotal. The reason is because, in my view, what is pivotal in either approach is good coaching/good coaching staff and a program where your son will get better...if he does the work. It isn't too likely that a good coach/coaching staff will have a history of losing. But a history of losing can be changed by good coaches.
The thread I started about the Hendrix program and coaches would be a classic example this season. The importance of good college coaches being critical cannot be underestimated.
Failing to recognize that coach offering the $$$ might not be solid/good coach who has a history of developing and improving his players, or has a history of stockpiling/over recruiting really happens when we wear those darn glasses.
Failing to recognize that coach offering little, or nothing in the case of DIII's, is also a darn good college coach who develops his players can also be missed when we wear those "glasses" that tell us our son is DI or deserves more $$$$.
As Fungo also points out, success/mistakes are often related to fit. My opinion is that fit can be substantially related to effort, commitment and dedication...of the player.
This surely is where we as parents wear the "Rose Colored" glasses.
In 2003, a very good friend of our son was coming off a terribly disappointing season for himself. During that Summer, he spent time in the NECBL and mentally challenged himself to understand what had happened. He looked at his coaches, looked at his teammates, looked at what he had done on the field and off of it, and looked at every other aspect he could.
He then concluded and communicated that if a player does not succeed in that college program, he doesn't need to look anyplace other than in the mirror to find the reason.
To make a long story short, I believe the common mistakes include:
1.) Failing to understand/know who is a good/successful college coach and who isn't;
2.) Failing to understand and accept the level of talent of our son and the level of talent he will need to be successful in a program;
3.) Failing to understand/accept the level of commitment, dedication, sacrifice and improvement required everyday on a college baseball field to "make" a "good" fit:
4.) Failing to look in the mirror if it isn't a "fit."