cosmo ... since you asked, yes
IMO, you are right where you WANT to be ...
awaiting the details of their offer(s) for your considerationsince you invited the coach to talk directly with your son, HE should politely listen & take it all in (take notes if possible) ... ask any questions that come to mind, then inquire as to when they need an answer, as these things need discussed by family at the dinner table and more questions will likely arise from Mom & Dad (** get coach's cell contact # for Qs if possible)
since you are NOT near Tennessee you will not likely be given "the" 12 hr deadline
but, at this time of yr for a sr I'd feel like 7 days or so would not be unreasonable ... but -
that could vary as they have to move on & close a deal somewhere else if you're not interested
they're probably aware of your JC option - it's up to you re how much you tell them about other offers that "might/will" be forthcoming
now ... vince is in a bit tougher spot, imo ...
he should tactfuly get himself in a postion to
consider an offer made to his son ... rather than HIM being the one MAKING the offerlike ... "coach, we'd just like you to throw your best offer at us so we can consider it"
that way vince can see where he stands, adjust expectations if necessary & respond ...
either with a smile & a handshake ... a counter offer ... or run away fast!
hope that helps