I believe most of those posting are far more knowledgable than the normal baseball parent.
Having spent the majority of my life being involved in coaching, scouting and recruiting it still amazes me how many parents think they are expert evaluators. Then again, there are some that really are good at it.
It all boils down to just four things. If a player could be #1 in all four areas, he would in fact be the greatest player that ever lived. 1 - Natural Talent. 2 - Effort 3 - Intelligence 4 - Luck.
I should explain... Most every other area one looks for like character or makeup or strength, really falls under the category of effort and intelligence. The more intelligent the player is, the less likely he becomes a problem.
BTW, this intelligence I am referring to, may or may not involve things like GPA and SAT. Some of the most intelligent players I have ever seen were not the greatest students in the classroom. On the other hand that classroom intelligence is vitally important in college recruiting.
While most parents over estimate their sons's ability. I have run across a few that really had no idea how much potential their son had. A few years back, a kid showed up at an underclass event and his mom and dad talked to me. Their son had yet to play for his HS team and he was entering his junior year. They thought he had some talent and were hoping he could make the HS team and maybe play in college somewhere. Anyway, we really liked this player, he was raw but had serious tools and natural athleticism. We graded him very high. The parents thanked us and said now what do we do. I said, just keep him playing and you are in for one hell of a ride.
Long śtory short, that boy is now in the big leagues. So it is not right to lump all parents into the "rose colored glasses" group. Some see things accurately and some simply have no idea.
Anyway, how to get recruited? Think about the 4 ingredients. Then do whatever you can to make sure people know who you are.
If you are what they want, here is how it works...
Have what they want! Make sure they know it!
You can send out a thousand emails listing everything you have accomplished. You can tell them how hard you work and what a great person you are. You might put together the greatest marketing piece ever.
and you know what
One Major League scout telling a college coach that you can play, will accomplish a lot more and do it much quicker.
If I told you I was good enough to play in the big leagues, would you believe me? What if a Major League GM or scouting director told you I was good enough to play in the big leagues, would you believe them? If you have what it takes... Make sure the right people know who you are!