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That said... getting in shape is the easy part imho for most kids... The hardest part is the mental part and the hardest part of baseball imho.
How do you get a kid to relax when he goes into pitch or hit in a college game? How do you get them to let their natural abilities take over? Some kids dominate fall scrimmages when not many are watching. When the season begins, they might try and throw it through the backstop when pitching or squeeze the metal out of the bat when hitting, for example.
Some kids have quick early success and then fall back later in the season. Others never quite get untracked and it may take them a couple of years before their coach gives them an extended opportunity.
What are some mental things to help kids so they can enjoy peak performance? A couple things I've shared with my son is always tell him to be himself as that ought to be good enough. Another thing I always tell him is to let the game come to you.
CD, as always, a very interesting topic.
I am going to take a different route, I think.
First of all, when our son got to college, I am not sure there was anything I could tell him.
His skill level needed to be at a new level, his strength and conditioning needed to be at a new level, and his mental preparation and toughness needed to follow.
My ability/skills experience didn't equate with where he was going. My view was he needed to place his trust and opportunities with experienced college coaches, and teammates, and work with and through them to see where to go and how to get there.
Personally, I am one who feels what anyone did in HS, travel teams and the like does not make all that much difference on a college baseball field.
In contrast, I think college baseball requires players to get and be better every day. Once any player begins to believe the past is some indication for the future, the stage can be set for frustration and possible failure.
Mentally, I truly believe that after HS, players need to be able to focus on today and tomorrow, and forget yesterday.
That mental preparation to succeed needs to be present during every minute the player is on the field. They have to practice at the highest level and challenge themselves to be there, not once inch below.
But that isn't enough.
There is also the work before and after practice and every minute being at the highest level, and the next day being at a level just a bit higher than 24 hours before.
Finally, my view is players like our son, someone most would consider a good player but not the top level talent, succeed when they feel they need to prove themselves every day, to grind every minute, every AB, every inning, every practice, every scrimmage, and then get to to the field and cages early and stay late to grind more.
They cannot, mentally, be too high on the great days or too low on those where everything goes wrong.
Personally, my sense is players don't really relax. They do however become more aware and are able to adapt to the speed and level of skill/competiton of the game by more and better preparation.
By their preparation on the field, before and after practice, in the weight room, and studying scouting reports, they are still playing/concentrating and focused at a very, very high level.
But the game is not too fast.
Their preparation slows the game so they mentally are in control, rather than the game, speed, competition controlling them.
If I had to summarize in a few words, high quality mental and physical preparation allows players to adapt to the speed and competitive level of the college or Milb game.