I post the things I post in order to get smacked down by you guys, because I wish I had known about all this when my son was 14. I hope the dialogue is useful to readers. However...
When you say how they stack up against their peers on their teams and the competition some are looking through rose colored glasses. Their son bats .400 when they are keeping the scorebook. If they get on it is a hit. They are hit missiles to the outfield every at bat but the defense is just really good. He pitches really well just struggles with consistent velocity and control but when he gets that figured out he is as good as anyone. He only gives up a few runs 7/8 a game but it should really only be 1/2 if the defense could catch. He only has 5/6 walks a game. And I could go on and on.
Sorry, PF, I do actually know the difference between a hit and a fielder's choice. I've also seen the LHP who throws 88 but misses the strike zone 90% of the time, walking 6 in a row, getting P5 offers.
I admit I knew nothing about mechanical things, all I could see was performance. But I could see that.
What we did with our 2021 is get assessments from about 10 different former pro players or college coaches. 8 of them gave consistent feedback: “D3 athlete with a D1 swing, he can be D1 if his measureables improve”. One person said “D1”. One person said “Eventual D1 but he’ll need to go JUCO first.”
Fantastic! We had only 2 instructors in our town, plus the travel organization coaches. There weren't many people to ask, but I wish we had asked them such questions. Honestly, I didn't even know about the different levels until 17U. When we did ask questions, we didn't always get straight answers, some coaches were clearly uncomfortable talking about either playing or recruiting.
As I think of it, my son's HS travel coaches (former D1 players) all had sons who were committed to D1 schools. Not one of them has yet played an inning of college baseball (1 and 2 years in).
So don't entirely blame the tone-deaf parents; I'd say it's about 50-50 between parents not listening and coaches not telling. Please, all you knowledgable people out there, I hope you talk a lot, even if you don't like doing it, especially to the clueless parents, and don't assume that they know anything at all about college baseball.
How did a thread about the MLB draft become about tweener players?