How do you explain to the HS coach that your son would rather play on a travel team this summer rather than play summer ball with the HS team. I believe most travel teams and face stiffer competition during the summer months and would get greater exposure than his HS summer team. The HS coach advises his players to play summer ball with the HS team because it fosters team unity and that the travel teams only care about their players for 2 months of the year and may do things differently than the HS team teaches. In a sense I feel my son is trapped because the HS coaches may resent my son’s decision and penalize him in some fashion. Last summer nearly everyone on the HS team (Varsity & JV) played HS summer ball except for a very small handful of players. I’m still waiting to see if there’s any type of retaliation for these players this upcoming HS season.
Any advice on this subject by someone who has experienced it before would be most appreciated.
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