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When my son was five years old I started taking him with me to my practices at the HS. He would bounce balls off the dugout and beg to get on the field with the players. He would shag foul balls and then try to impress the guys with a throw over the backstop to get the balls in. After practice he would beg some of the guys to let him hit some on the field. He would go to the cage and hit off a t while we were on the field practicing. Then there were the bus rides. Trying to keep him quiet on the ride down to the game so the players could stay focused. And then trying to get him off the backs of the players jumping and screaming on the bus after a win. And then having to console him after a loss on the way back. Hearing him say "Dad when we gonna stop and get something to eat". "You know we won dad we got to stop and eat at McDonalds dad". Seeing him run out on the field to get bats during the games and smiling because one of the boys came up with a big hit. One of the funniest stories is we were up big a couple of years ago and one of my Seniors asked me if he could hit from the left side next time up. My boy says "You need to get an average from the right side first". The dugout errupted in laughter. Now he is a Freshman and part of the team officially. He has grown up into quite a young man and a heck of a player. He loves the game so much and I am so proud of how hard he works and how much he loves his teamates. His first HS ab in practice he goes yard over the 385' sign in cf. I am glad hes here but now I am also sad. I know that the next four years are going to go by so fast. Thanks for reading my story.
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Thank you. One thing I have learned is I don't really coach my kid. We have three other coaches that are outstanding. I let them handle him period. I rarely talk to him or get on him I let them do all the coaching. If I need to make a coaching point I do but I prefer the other guys take care of things for me here. The one thing I told him since he was in the 7th grade is "You better be so much better than the competition when you get in HS because if its even close you loose". "Im never going to hear the only reason your in the line up is because of me". "And you dont want to doubt for one minute that that is the case". "You better bury the competition or get some tweasers so you can pull the splinters out of your A** with them". He took it to heart because he knew I was serious.
Coach May,

Your last post should be an instant classic.

Al McGuire, the late coach of Marquette, reportedly took a little different twist on things.

One of his players came up to him and said, "Coach, why do you play your son instead of me. I'm just as good as him".

Al said something like, "Son, you are right. You are just as good as my son. The difference is, I like you, but I love my son".

Sounds like something Al would say. RIP
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Coach May, Nice Post! Enjoy these next four years! I envy you getting to sit there and watch him from the corner of your eye as he is working with another coach and knowing how hard he has worked to get here. It will also be a special time for him. The now be a part of his father's legacy. That says so much. GOOD LUCK AND ENJOY THIS TIME TOGETHER!
Coach May-
Great move letting your other coaches deal with your son. It will be better for you and your kid...no question about it. My dad was my high school basketball coach, and it is both great and difficult at the same time. I look forward to someday coaching MY boy...but I know the tribulations that come with it. Sounds like you have a great four years ahead of you...enjoy every moment!!!
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Originally posted by Coach May:
I am glad hes here but now I am also sad. I know that the next four years are going to go by so fast. Thanks for reading my story.


Not to be a downer, but enjoy these times becuase you are going to wake up tomorrow morning and he will be graduating. Time really does go faster as you get older.
Coach May, "it happens every spring" as they say. I loved your story. I'm in the same place. For the first time since he was four and I took him out into a field near Pittsburgh with a huge red plastic bat and wiffle ball -- he'll be coached by someone else. I'm grateful for the chance to now just sit back and watch him play, as a silent spectator in the stands. He's got 2 great HS coaches now and he's also found a training home with a Korean team - made friends, the coaches have made him feel welcome......couldn't get any better. But I definitely miss the daily baseball interactions we've had for so long.......and I will now cry even harder when Costner and his 'dad' "have a catch"........

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