Well here is my sons story. He had a strong summer, and got onto the radar of several top college programs after strong showings in the fall after which he ultimately received an offer and committed to a major D1. We were so excited and I couldnt have been prouder of him.
Going forward I sensed that there would be a fair amount of jealousy from his HS teammates as he was one of the first underclassmen to commit and because he was not really on the radar as a top prospect until recently. But I had no idea how bad it would be.
Some of his teammates really treat him like crap. Really petty stuff too. Kind of hard to go into detail without letting the cat out of the bag, but I imagine that those of you who have had similar circumstances know what I am talking about.
I am a little more forgiving of kids as they are just that and do stupid stuff, but it is the parents too. Some people that I considered friends, well, maybe not. A handful of the classy parents congratulated him, but many have grumbled and questioned his accomplishments. Of course it has gotten back to me.
In the end I know that this experience will make him stronger and help prepare him for bigger challenges down the road. But it is really sad that it has to be that way.