KC - That's probably a good resolution for many of us.
Don't want to hijack TR's thread, but in the spirit of us making resolutions, I'll share something along KC's line of thinking. I have this yellowed small piece of paper out of a magazine that I have had on my refrigerator for around 18 years - put it there when I had my son.
First I was dying to finish HS and start college.
And then I was dying to finish college and start working.
And then I was dying to marry and have children.
And then I was dying for my children to grow old enough for school so I could return to work.
And then I was dying to retire.
And now, I am dying... And suddenly realize I forgot to live.
Anonymous
It's easy for us all to forget to smell the roses as we do everything else life requires.