I love the hSBBW because everyone is so helpful, but sometimes no matter how hard we try, the poster becomes confused and we do also (at least I am).
LHPStow,
You left a post in general items yesterday and got some pretty good advice, have gotten some good advice today and also inquired about looking for a team to play for in another thread and have some other posts regarding your situation in other threads as well, plus and inquiry on a school.
I think you have been given some good advice to begin your work, it's a big undertaking and overwhelming for a young player. I am suggesting(if serious) that you sit down with your folks to talk about goals and how they can assist you in obtaining those goals. Let them know that you wish to play beyond HS, show them this website so they can begin to understand the process and help you to understand as well.
Best of luck.