About two weeks ago BFSJr and I went on an unofficial visit to a major D1 school....they treated him like a rock star....put him on field for home football game, tour of facilities, watched Fall inner scrimmage, etc.....they want him to verbal.....Jr is a 2017 LHP..not only flattering for a young kid, it creates pressure very early to make a decision that most are not prepared to make.
The pitching coach is very well known to us, and he gave Jr some great advice, and we did our homework to confirm what he said was accurate. Basically he warned us of the many schools that will offer early and change their minds later. His reputation is that they stick to their offers..basically if they "miss" in their evaluation, it's his fault and you still get your offer the first year to earn your spot. Many programs make the early commit pay the consequence if the coaches either find a player they like better or if the player does not progress like they were anticipating. Players certainly know more info regarding where you fit in to their program the later you wait to commit.
As many have indicated earlier, I would at least be cautiously concerned, and be proactive in trying to find out if there is reason to be concerned. My experience has been typically there is no question on whether a players is wanted or not.....unless this guys is just disorganized, or has a strange way of communicating, I'd be concerned.
I see some advantages especially for pitchers to commit early, however I'd want to get a history on how that worked out for other early commits at that program. Jr is not ready to commit, however the fact that he was offered has created a buzz, and his coaches are getting calls / emails from other programs.
I wish the NCAA would make the decision for us all, and not allow 15 year olds to verbal. The coach mentioned they were pretty much already finished with 2016's, which to me seems crazy.
Have plan B ready just in case.