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JB...Good topic...
We have been down this road before...but not for a while..I may be far too idealistic, but...MY god, they are young men, there is enough heavy reality in the next 50 years...while they are young, let them dream. Let'em try life out. Why not?...
- IMO, he purpose of college is not trade school, The purpose of college is education and that is acheived by the individual not by the institution. If I wanted him to find an excellent trade after high school I would have apprenticed him as a plumber. I expect my son to work hard and become solidly educated no matter where he goes, playing ball or not.
- I believe that an ability to handle life beyond college is bigger and more important for him than Ivy diplomas and the "right" major alone. Physical, mental, spiritual, social and personal development are important as well. The biggest lessons in college are often not learned in the classroom.
- I believe that for my son to fulfill his purpose in this life then he must follow his passion, more than his pocketbook, the herd, money, trophy diplomas, or the fear that he will not have graduated from the right school with the right diploma. I know tons of people with the right majors from the right schools who have the right jobs and...are miserable.
- I expect him to show me, and future employers that the character of the individual is much more important than who issued the diploma, or what major he undertook. I expect this to set him apart.
- I believe that my son has the right to change his mind and switch majors or directions in college, and beyond. I believe this is often a great idea. I believe this is his right.
- I believe that one of the greatest lessons that college can teach is how difficult and how important it is to learn to juggle many areas of life at once. I belive that one the biggest problems facing our country is absantee parents who are far too career minded. I believe this starts early (the best high school, the best college, the best career...) I believe that this often leads to "careeritis" where career is more important than family or spouse. I don't wish "careeritis" on my sons, or their families.
- I believe that chasing a dream, failing and then learning how to pick ones self back up is perhaps the greatest lesson one can learn. And based upon the numbers game of college sports this is likley what will happen. Can't teach that in a classroom.
- I believe that in the end, when we are waiting to meet our maker, we will all wish that we had chased more dreams, taken more chances. I don't believe that we wished we had gone to a better school and gotten a different diploma.....
....if you could do anything you wanted....if you could have a wish....
And you're the kind of man who could grant me that wish?
I don't know. I'm just asking.
You know,I never got to bat in the major leagues. I'd have liked to have had that chance, just once...to stare down a big-league pitcher. Stare him down, then just as he goes into his windup, wink. Make him think you know something he doesn't. That's what I wish for. The chance to squint at a sky so blue that it hurts your eyes to look at it. To feel the tingle in your arms as you connect with the ball. To run the bases, stretch a double into a triple...and flop face first into third. Wrap your arms around the bag.
That's my wish.
In the end....There are no guarantees even with a great diploma from a perfect school...life is to be lived..and experienced...sports are a great part of that for the few who are lucky enough to be educated by them.
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