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It’s very interesting how people perceive time so differently.   A certain song, scent, date, weather or an action that triggers the human brain.   My wife and I, for example clearly look at memories very differently.   However there is one memory that we both agree on that makes us smile ear to ear.   Ten years ago tomorrow (April 1, 2012) our oldest son threw a college no-hitter against a pretty good hitting team that had led the conference in hitting.   It was no April Fools.   It was an unbelievable thing to witness and share.   I’ll never forget all the details of that day….who I sat with…who I talked to during the game.   But, here’s the thing that really made my wife and I stop and think about what our son had done but more about the person he had become.   There was an older gentleman who had witnessed the game with us.   We had no idea who he was, and he actually wrote an article in a historical framework about what our son had done and what he thought about our son when he met him after the game.

Every year an April 1 passes us by.   I think of the kind words a stranger wrote about meeting my oldest son, and taking the time to share his thoughts.   It makes Mom and Dad very proud.

https://cornellsun.com/2012/04...aseballs-no-hitters/ 

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The description of the writer with your son showed he was a mature college kid.

One of my cousins was an Ivy athlete. He said Ivy athletes are not coddled and revered. He felt it helped maturity prosper. He joked he got pursued more by women for being pre med than an athlete.

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Thanks for sharing! What a great memory and with a great story to go along with it. It sounds like the older gentleman was clearly more excited than your son.

My brother is a Cornell Graduate(non athlete) and my nephew was a linebacker at Cornell and graduated with a degree in mechanical engineering. Not the easiest major for an athlete, but he has been rewarded in life for that hard work.

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Thanks for sharing! What a great memory and with a great story to go along with it. It sounds like the older gentleman was clearly more excited than your son.

My brother is a Cornell Graduate(non athlete) and my nephew was a linebacker at Cornell and graduated with a degree in mechanical engineering. Not the easiest major for an athlete, but he has been rewarded in life for that hard work.

Exactly right.  My son was probably the least excited person there.  Teammates, coaches, fans, and parents were clearly off-the- charts excited, but he just kind of smiled and grinned afterwards as he put on his coat.

You and I both know your brother and my son did not take an easy path toward their undergrad degrees.  Lots of late nights.  There was no other path my son would have been 100% satisfied with. 

Any more gems like this that we're gonna have to wait 10 years for?

Bueller?

Bueller?

Nope.   That is all I got today.

I still can't believe it was just 10 years ago.   My wife (always the ying to my yang) thinks it was so long ago.   It seems just like yesterday that I froze my @ss off in the Cornell parking garage (down the 3rd base side) in 40 degree weather with a chilly wind while my son was "dealing" on the mound.  FYI....I had multiple layers of clothing and I was "wearing" a sleeping blanket.  My son was the only person at the ball field not wearing sleeves under his uniform.   Not sure what that was all about.

Totally out of gems for today, but tomorrow is a new day. 

C,

Great to hear from you.   You just made my Monday AM!  It has been a while.   I have no doubt that T is doing well and enjoying life.  10 years ago seems like yesterday is my story and I'm sticking to it, otherwise I'd have to admit we're getting older.    My boys are all doing their thing, and my youngest is coming home today after spending some time in Europe courtesy of our Armed Forces.   Connor is married, getting a masters in engineering and lives up in your neck of the woods.

There is no doubt you remember the no-hitter just as I remember seeing your son's first college hit (a double RBI smoked to the left field gap) and describing it to you over the phone because you got stuck in traffic.  BTW...Buzz and Ned's BBQ is no longer so if you're in Richmond soon, I'll have to take you to another great BBQ joint...which is like shooting fish in a barrel in Richmond! 

Hope all is well on your end!

Great read, plus I learned something... I never knew Ken Dryden played baseball. 

You and me both.  The first time I read the article my jaw dropped when he mentioned that.  Ken Dryden was arguably one of the best hockey goalies EVER.   He certainly was the best goalie when I was younger.   I remember his nickname was "four story goalie" because he was so big.   I believe he became a Canadian politician after he retired from the NHL.

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