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Originally posted by HighCheese:
just a tough choice for a young kid to make, especially with no history of service in the family. Kids think short term (which seems long term to them), and at 16-17, that 5 years sounds like a lifetime.
Although I am ex military, one term, you would never know that in our family, it wasn't part of the family culture. So my son was much like any other, no exposure to military culture, it isn't talked about in our house..no reason to bring it up.
I agree wholeheartedly that young men have a difficult time thinking of a 5 year hitch. The good news, is that you can attend a service academy for two years with no obligation. You can leave the academy any time, up until the first day of classes your junior year, and you owe the military and the government nothing. It's not the scary commitment it appears to be. The good news is, that although some credits, i.e. history of battle, won't transfer, many of the other credits transfer at a higher rate and the GPA is added to, if the cadet does decide to leave the academy.
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Originally posted by HighCheese:
If they really want you, you will get in. Period. (as long as you are at least somewhat respectable academically)
There is a lot of truth to that, and also a great deal of ambiguity that creates wiggle room for the coach.
I agree with jemaz, that you aren't set for life coming out, but...you are probably better armed for success than most. Again, it's all about what you do with it.