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Makes it hard from a parents perspective to see him play. Maybe better for him, knowing that mom and dad are not there, maybe he can just relax and have fun.
Very common feelings/insights which we certainly shared at the time. We are from Nothern CA and our son went to a DIII in TX. While it is seems hard, at this point, that you might not see him play as much, it makes the times you do even more special.
More importantly, though, his being away, being happy and being with a great coach/team and great school helped us quickly realize these choices were about our son and his life. Through the choices, he was able to make himself a better, more productive and more responsible person...and a much better player.
If our experience is at all helpful, you very easily remove the sense you are "missing something" because you don't get to see him play when you see how well he is doing both on and off the field. Cannot emphasize enough that if your son makes a good choice and is happy, that replaces very quickly any sense of "loss" you as a parent might experience.