hegonein2005.....
I totally agree, and also with 'breaker' and 'smokeyboy'! I know most coaches can and have had those moments of having to gain the attention of their players, if you understand what I'm saying. But, I don't believe in mass punishment either. Yes, pull the player out of the game during the half inning (pitchers aren't included in this scenario), not while the inning is in progress because he mishandled a ball or two.
As far as the program is concerned, you want to be playing and not be sitting on the bench. There are many fine travel teams and clubs that will gain you exposure, some more than others because of where they travel to, but you will gain exposure and experience with any good team.
Work hard and stay focused. That's what will get the attention of coaches and scouts. Having some ability will help as well.