TRhit-
Good post and I suspect true for many of us. Son had a solid junior HS season at a top program and a good summer. Went to Aug. Showcases and selected fall showcase camps at colleges where he was interested in attending and had contact from coaches. Was rated as a low-mid D1 prospect(7-8), but no D1 offer. Son had some DII interest (none fit academically) and lots of DIII interest. Maybe because he was a late-bloomer physically we never knew exactly what would happen, but we just kind of took this process as it came and we all were excited about any interest that came his way.
The DIII schools have all been strong academic schools and have made my son feel "wanted." Lots of posters here have written about "fit" and son feels he has found it with a great school. His high school coach thought that maybe he would garner an offer in the spring by a DI program, but to be honest what if that doesn't happen and he loses this chance for a great education while also living his dream of playing college baseball? His decision had absolutely nothing to do with settling or not believing in himself-if hardwork alone could get him a D1 scholarship, he would have had it. Considering his circumstances all around, he is excited that baseball has given him this opportunity- along with his dedication in the classroom and on the field. We are keeping our fingers crossed about being accepted through Early Decision.
If he can graduate from a great school in four years and have the opportunity to play baseball for four years, we would be thrilled for him. The dream to play baseball beyond does not die, just because you choose to go somewhere other than a D1 school. Sometimes you can do all the right things as TRhit has said and for whatever reason you don't go D1. I read a post earlier that said that if baseball gets you into a school that you may not have otherwise gotten into, it has done its job. This really hit home and made us appreciate his opportunity even more.
The posters on this site have been a terrific source of information, but also their generosity of sharing their experiences, both good and bad, have helped so many of us going through it now. Their perspective have also given us a lot to think about. Thank you!!