Want to echo what Bishop said.
Also want to reiterate that D3's -- especially the more competitive ones -- can break a lot of kids hearts. That's been said on other threads, but never hurts to repeat it.
There were 64 kids on the fall roster of my son's D3 this fall, including 8 transfer students and 25 incoming frosh. I gather from him that although not all of these students were HEAVILY recruited, a very large number of them were recruited to some degree or other. He gathered that from the fact that in sharing stories a lot of them expressed great surprise at how MANY players they had to compete against. Very few seem to showed up without any prior contact with the coaches and most of them believed that they had a very strong shot of making the team.
In fairness to the coaches, since a D3 coach actually doesn't know who's going to show up in the fall, it's not at all unreasonable for them to cast a wide net. But I think many players don't fully realize for some D3 schools how wide the net can be -- though I'm sure different programs differ, in this regard though too. Some may not bring in quite so many kids. I think this is really one of the variables you want to weigh heavily in considering a D3 program. What is the coach really promising you besides an opportunity to try out? And how much competition does he expect you to have? And where does he see you fitting in in that competition?
Back to my son's school. Between Varsity and JV, the spring roster will definitely not include 64 players come the spring. In fact, final cuts have been made and while my son hasn't told me the size of the Spring roster, last year there were a total of 41 players kept between the two rosters. 29 Varsity, 12 JV -- with some mobility of players from JV to varsity. The year before there were about the same number. I'm assuming it's about the same story this year. If it is, then 20+ guys were cut this year -- that is, one third of the fall roster. Though I gather from him that the cuts fell heavily on incoming players, not everybody cut was an incoming. Sounded like returning players who hadn't made the varsity before -- especially if they are juniors -- faced kind of a steep climb. And at least a few returning Varsity players, who maybe didn't live up to expectations, were at least on the bubble,as far as he could tell.
It's a tough business.