I probably should clarify the above by adding that I was a poor rural TN southern boy moving to northern IL.
gotwood4sale,
I don't think there is a way to totally lose a southern accent because I tried very, very hard to get that midwest DJ voice but I never quite mastered it!
As for the southern ways, I will always love southern cooking with fried chicken, corn bread (plain and with cracklins), greens (turnip, mustard, collard or poke), beans (with fatback), real smoked ham, fried catfish with hush puppies, homemade meringue chocolate pie, peach cobbler, blackberry cobbler, fresh squeezed lemonade, sweet tea, etc. I'm getting hungry just recalling all the food from my youth!