I need some advice, my son is still quite young, going to be a 6th grader this fall 11 yrs old , but he has developed into a pretty good young pitcher already, throwing 65 mph, high 60s up to 68 mph. Fairly large 5"5 120 already but ive seen quite a few much larger kids already on the travel team circuit. We play in a very competitive little league which of course has set pitch counts but he also plays on a team that his instructor coaches during the other part of the year. My son had some elbow tendinitis last spring but otherwise he has been injury free and never seems to be sore after pitching or complain about pain at all. His mechanics are good but of course we have seen a lot of his friends on various teams have a variety of elbow and shoulder sprains, growth plate issues so we are clearly sensitive to it. Amazingly its mostly his little league friends that we have seen with issues.
Maybe given little league pitch counts I am sensitive to it, but in travel ball as you all know, its outs or innings, and its a wkd total. So Ive found that my son is asked sometimes to pitch a few innings on Saturday and throw a lot on Sunday. Already this year he has pitched a game where he didnt give up an earned run but because of a variety of errors and dropped 3rd strikes his pitch count ran up and the coach left him in the whole game, because he was trying to win and we did, but my son threw over 100 pitches. when I asked the coach about it, he said he was old school and it would make him tougher, stronger. We have been very loyal and stayed with this team for several years, I know the coach can lose his temper some but he has really developed my son into a good player over the last 3 years.
The next time we played my son was asked to pitch on Saturday and because of a variety of the same, just throwing fastballs down the middle and errors, passed 3rd strikes my son ran up another high pitch count despite only giving up 1 earned run. What was bothering me was that I knew my son was going to be asked to pitch again the very next day and he had already thrown 58 pitches in 2 innings, 6 strikeouts but only 4 counted because of passed balls, 3 walks and 2 hits added up quicker than you would think. The umpire was calling strikes off the plate, my son can hit spots, but the coach didnt bother calling pitches, told the catcher fastballs down the middle, these guys cant touch him. They didnt hit him hard but they fouled off a lot of pitches, he was getting batters in 0-2, 1-2 counts and there was no strategy at all. My son has a great offspeed pitch but the coach believes in establishing fastball and I generally agree with that as well. Finally I had enough and walked over and told the coach why dont you just pull him, his pitch count is getting high, especially as I knew he was going to pitch him again on Sunday.
The coach didnt like this very much and told me before my son got to the dugout, we were free to just go if I didnt like it and dont bother coming back. We didnt leave, my son had 2 key hits to put us out in front. But as you might imagine I was not happy at all, I told my wife what happened and my son overhearing wanted to know. I told my son I didnt think he should play with this team anymore. He is confused, likes the coach as a friend and has gotten close to him over the last few years and likes his teammates a lot. I decided we would not play on Sunday and that was it for baseball this summer, he resisted wanting to play as he loves to play but reluctantly agreed.
Im sure someone else has dealt with this type of scenario, likely dealt with it a lot better than I did. Did I do the right thing? My son is more worried about what team he is going to play for, I'm not worried about that so much as im worried the next coach is going to over pitch him as well, and soon I will be in a situation where I probably wont be able to have any influence at all. Thanks for any response or advice.