Originally Posted by bacdorslider:
You know guys I really just wanted to know how a freshman could go about having a conversation with his coach about not wanting to play SS and pitch. Then the responses were as if the player was dictating to the coach when and where he was going to play.
It's hard to win here. On one hand some folks think pitching and playing ss is not a good idea. I have read posts about how one needs to have discussions with their player about not playing too much.
I mena this is a freshman we are talking about... he is being a team player, he is doing what the coaches want. Honestly I don't think the coach is too concerned where he plays on the JV team. Heck he might end up on the JV team all season. He might end up on the varsity team.
I just wanted to know two things, is pitching and playing short a bad idea due tot he differences in the positions. And I asked the coaches to respond as to what the best way would be for the player to talk to the coach about it.
And some how , it got to "go play on your travel team" no one is better than the team etc....
I just have a freshman that is happy to get his chances on the varsity, but really does not want to become a PO as a freshman. And I get, is it's my why or the highway.....
I really do not care what someone did 40 years ago and I never said that he was not going to do what the coach asks of him.
My thought is that although generalizations can be made regarding the wisdom of trying to pitch and play other defensive positions, or the wisdom of becoming a single sport, or single position player at a young age the reality is that it depends on the individual, their goals and objectives.
Sports and baseball pitching in particular place significant stresses on tendons, ligaments, muscles and bones in the elbow and shoulder. This is an unavoidable fact. Proper mechanics can minimize the damage that occurs during a 70+ pitch outing but it is impossible to eliminate it. So what are your sons goals? Does he want to be a professional pitcher? Does he dream of being the next Derek Jeter? Is he enjoying the sport and social experience of HS baseball? Does he plan on playing college ball and desires a scholarship to do that? Once you have assessed your objectives they other party here is the HS Varsity coach. It is important to understand his objectives for example, Does he have aspirations of coaching beyond HS? Is he a teacher that is really into the school spirit aspects of baseball? Is he a student of the game and desires to impart wisdom to a new generation of young men? Does he want more than life itself to hoist a state championship trophy?
Some of this might seem silly but how the coaches goals and objectives and your sons goals and objectives align is important to answer your question. If the coach is all about winning than RJM may be right and your discussion will likely result in "You will contribute in whatever way I (the coach) tells you to". However Coach Rick is absolutely right from a baseball injury and risk perspective. If the coach is a developer of talent then he would be more understanding of the long term concerns and you may have a positive and productive discussion on the best way to develop this very obvious talent.
I believe as a coach I have always fallen into the latter category and would embrace a player engaging me in an honest discussion regarding how to best care for their arm for pitching while allowing them to contribute through batting and fielding. To me that is the challenge of a great coach, to win while developing players talent and maintaining the health of the players. Not everyone sees their job as a coach that way.
So now for the advice part...If it were my son I would explain the importance of being a man and knowing your own mind. Know what is important to you, know your limitations and capabilities, Engage the coach respectfully to understand their expectation is for you. How they see you contributing? Let them know you want to be the best you can for the team but share that you are playing SS on JV and that you have experienced some arm soreness. Communicate that you don't want to let anyone down but your are concerned that if you continue to do what you have been doing you are scared of letting everybody down by coming up lame and not being able to contribute on either team. Maybe there is a fundamental change that the coach can identify to help, maybe they can come up with an approach that provides the needed rest and recovers after a given pitch count or perhaps they will tell him to suck it up and let them coach. In any case you will have achieved your objective and gathered enough information to make a good decision for your son and he will have learned how to interact as a man and communicate. All just food for thought...