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Maybe the thread should been. Is it harder to get there or harder to stick.
dswann, now that is a thought provoking question. I wonder how parents would answer vs. how their son might answer.
Before college baseball/college athletics for our children, I had always thought the hardest part was was where you were/are as a player/athlete at the time.
What I believe most find out is that nothing before college adequately prepares for the rigors of college life, college academics, being on your own, being responsible for your actions and in-actions, all combined with the highs, the lows, the intensity, the level of competition and the daily grind over 11 1/2 months(including Summer ball) of college baseball. In a sense, there are no days off without potential risks and/or consequences. Even the hardest days of work don't usually achieve immediate results and rewards. Even if they do, any rewards need to be quickly viewed as fleeting as tomorrow is another day.
Success is not based on what was done yesterday.
Along with a few other Old Timers still posting, my view continues to be that the most difficult part of the transition to college baseball is the mental aspect. I honestly believe that most recruited players have the tools and physical skills.
With that said, I don't think there are too many helpful threads on any site about the mental side. This one I have cut and pasted is a thought provoking article on a highly recruited college player...who recently chose to give up baseball after his freshman year. I think his words answer your question pretty clearly and speak very, very much to the mental grind that can be college baseball or baseball in Milb:
"As sports writers, we sit back sometimes and wonder how young athletes can continue the pace they are on — some of it year around — and not at some point just say the heck with it all, I’m out of here.
So maybe it’s not surprising when we discover one of those among us has done just that. South Kitsap graduate Brady Steiger, whose list of honors is long, has decided one injury-filled year at Washington State is enough. He’s had it. He’s out of here.
A year ago, Steiger, a third baseman, was ranked 10th in the Northwest for the class of 2009 by Baseball Northwest. It looked like he had the baseball world by its tail. Little did we know he was wearing down, that he had actually thought for several years that something just wasn’t right.
He was burned out on baseball.
“I just kind of lost the desire to play anymore,” Steiger said. “I think I burned myself out earlier in the season. It just didn’t work out. I got my taste of what it was like at a higher level and realized it was not what I wanted to do anymore.”
Playing a sport at a high level takes a lot of time and energy in today’s world. A high school athlete plays for his school team and on the side practices and plays tournaments with his select club year-round at showcase events where pro and college scouts may outnumber regular fans.
The pressure and the commitment — not including the cost to parents — is exceedingly high. And that is just for a high school-level athlete.
Multiply everything by 10 or more when it comes to being a college athlete on full scholarship.
In a recent study done by Richard Stratton of Virginia Tech’s physical education department, he found about 70 percent of kids involved in sports drop out before they turn 13.
Another study found that only two percent of high school athletes earn scholarships. And the chances of anyone making it to the pros are 0.1 percent — that’s one in 1,000.
Yet, the pressure to perform all year continues unabated. Parents want their child to be the best and, in many cases push for him/her to select a sport and play it at a high level for a long time.
So should we be surprised when somebody like Steiger, who by all accounts appeared to have a bright future in college baseball, and maybe a chance to beat the one-in-1,000 odds and make it as a pro baseball player, calls it quits?
“This caught me by surprise,” Washington State coach Donnie Marbut said. “Sometimes players want to make a change in their life. Sometimes it is important to do things that make you happy.
“We have seen this happen before. A lot of baseball players at colleges leave. It’s more than a job. It’s a fulltime commitment, a way of life. Sometimes guys do burn out. It’s just something as a coach you have to deal with.”
Steiger struggled with injuries. He broke a bone in his foot during fall ball and in the spring suffered a rib injury that limited his effectiveness. He made four starts and played in 14 games, mostly in late innings. He had the game-winning hit in a 3-2 win over BYU.
For the season, Steiger had 22 at-bats, seven hits (all singles), scored five runs and batted in two runs.
But Steiger, whose grade-point average at SK was near 3.8, discovered a college athlete on scholarship means you don’t have much of a life beyond your sport and your books.
“It’s a whole new world up here,” Steiger said. “You are not playing a game anymore. It’s a job.”
The “job” required his full attention almost all the time, daybreak to darkness.
“Baseball has been a struggle for me the last couple years,” Steiger says. “I thought college would pick me up. I thought it would be pretty fun. But it’s a tough road up there. The travel isn’t an easy thing to do. I realized you have to do a lot more than that if you go higher (to the pros).
“I didn’t think I wanted to make this my career any more. I just decided to hang it up.”
The decision wasn’t easy. He had been playing baseball since he was five and had played a high level of select ball with the Northwest Timberjacks before landing his scholarship. But he had been thinking about quitting for the last three months of the season. He consulted with family and friends who assured him that as long as he was comfortable with it and would have no later regrets they would back him.
Steiger made his decision two weeks before the season ended, but decided to wait until the season ended before announcing it to Marbut. He felt he owned the team that much.
“It was a hard decision,” he said. “I know there will be times when I will miss it. But I’m happy with my decision. I think I made the right one.”
“Sometimes it’s tough to be honest with yourself,” Marbut said. “It’s not the easiest thing. Give him credit for being able to walk away from the game. He’s a bright kid. We will miss him.”
Well, not exactly. Marbut offered to help him get a position as an equipment guy. Steiger accepted. The agreement is that Steiger will receive small financial aid this coming season and then will get full tuition plus a stipend next year, and a little more the following season.
Steiger is excited to remain involved.
“The hardest part for me was leaving the guys on the team,” Steiger said. “I love the guys, so I’m glad to at least be with the guys and be around the team.”
Steiger has also been doing some youth coaching around Port Orchard and will likely stay involved in the game that way in the future.
“I love it. It’s great,” he says of the coaching.
“He’s a great student,” Marbut added. “He wants to go to WSU and get his degree. That is the most important thing. He’s not going to waiver on that. He just didn’t want to play the game anymore.”