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Originally posted by 2013 Parent:
2013 attended a camp last weekend at a school/program that he is very, very interested in. There were a few other coaches there helping out with the event.
At the end the host coach told the players to please give them a week to gather/compare their notes, etc., and then email them for feedback, etc. So, 2013 has not been in touch yet.
Yesterday he received a personal email from one of the "helping" coaches saying how impressed he was, etc. It was very nice, but that school is not a good fit.
This note raised a question in our home - the kind of question you could make yourself crazy with - does this mean that the host college isn't interested since they didn't also reach out to him during this week to "gather their information"?
When a school is truly interested, you will know it, even if at first the interest is subtle. If you do not see these subtle signs (or greater) then the interest probably does not exist. At least not now (that can -- and does -- change).
What you described is very interesting to me -- an offer but from a school that is not a fit. I have three sons, two of whom have played college baseball. My middle son was a strong high school player and he had some college offers. But he also was an outstanding student. The baseball opportunities he had just did not match his academic opportunities and he ended his baseball career at the high school level. For him, it was great decision.
By the way, I do agree with the advice above to give the coach a call or to send him a note. You never know, and there are exceptions to what I said. It's just much better all the way around when you do not have to do that.