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As I sat here this morning thinking about how the new pitch count will come into play for my team this season and what to do with the 6 players I will have for the first 5-6 weeks of the season until basketball finishes up and we have enough kids to go play, my mind drifted back over the past couple of seasons with this merry band of misfits in the picture.  The Sr.s were with me when we started up the program and were playing every game on the road because we did not have a field to play on.  These guys were also with me at my darkest hour and hold a special place with me.

We finished last season with a winning record (9-8) and the picture is after a game where we beat a top team. (Yes, we now have a field complete with cages, dugouts, scoreboard, bases, the whole 9 yards. lol)    I enjoyed coaching this group as much or more than some of the 20+ win teams of the past.   Something happens to a coach, team, community when the importance is the kids and W-L record does not matter.  I am sure if we keep winning a few games someone will expect more and the magic will be gone, but for now we will enjoy the tailgating and cookouts, the student body showing up to support their class mates even though they know nothing of the game of baseball, and the players growing into quality young men.  

The game will never be the same for me. It simply can not be when your son's name is on the outfield wall, or a tournament is named after your son like a friend of mine, but the relationships built and the lessons taught and learned come from a different perspective and hold more importance now. I know I have said it before but cherish this time and love your kids and do not stress/worry about what they did or did not do on the field.

 

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Thanks for the reminder D8, Sometimes we all lose perspective. One of my favorite seasons came when my youngest played glorified rec ball. He played rec during the week and played local tournaments or against other travel teams on the weekends.  Only one player was going on to play in college. All the others were going off to college and other things. It was kind of a last hurrah for this team. But none of us cared about wins or losses. It was more about one last hurrah. Son rarely started during the week, but would play half the game in the outfield or catcher, get to pitch every so often and started every weekend game at catcher. There were no egos no squabbles just one last hurrah for a group of kids who genuinely liked each other. All us parents got along as well.  There were a few new kids but they were mostly a year or two younger and had some baseball left after the season. But the younger kids learned a lot about being a team, and how to have fun at a game that can sometimes be frustrating if you focus on the wrong thing. 

SDR posted:

Another wonderful post coach, thank you.   Your “Play hard. Have fun. I love you” became the standard text to my son before each of his games last season.

I believe he hears you. I tell the same to my daughter who barrel races followed by a hug (except Run hard, have fun, and I love you). She doesn't usual reply or acknowledge, but I did not say it one day and she came looking for me wanting to know where her hug and three things I tell her were. So kids hear us even if they do not act like it sometimes.

I want to thank all of you guys for the kind words. I am not sure they are deserved, but they are appreciated. Trying to describe the last year and a half is a task that I am not a qualified to accomplish, but I may try to share a few of the things that I have learned or had reinforced since then.  

 

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