Understanding the recruiting cycle is one of the most challenging aspects of being the parent of a prospective college baseball player. In reality it is very simple --- your son is being recruited when the coach says he WANTS him and is willing to offer something for his yes/no answer. But the confusion as to where he stands prior to actually being recruited can be VERY frustrating. It would be nice if we could add different levels to the stages of recruitment. Currently there are only two, Prospect and Recruit. Coaches don't want to clear up this confusion for fear of losing a "prospect" to another coach. Coaches are guilty of treating prospects like mushrooms. In the initial stages of recruitment I, like most parents, was guilty of fabricating serious interest from insignificant interest. Only after it was over and each scenario played out was I was able to accurately evaluate the interest. To those that have been through the process; what indicators do you think were most significant during your son's recruiting cycle? For me I think it was the "things" that the head coach or the recruiting coordinator did or said (not the support staff) that indicated they had a real interest.
Fungo
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