I have struggled with the concept of my Son doing the bulk of his "marketing".
I suppose in the purest sense he does. He plays the game, and that is the most important part of marketing, showing his skill and intensity during a game.
In recent hindsight it has become more apparent that his ability to play the game may be all the "marketing" that he needs. We are very fortunate that we live in heavily scouted Florida.
None the less, (I can tend to be overbearing, forgive me
) my Son just turned 17. He weight trains with the baseball team every morning at 5:45AM, goes to school all day, then has evening workouts, running, hitting, fielding and throwing daily.
He needs a life outside of baseball. To follow up with mail, allow coaches and scouts to be aware of his schedule, his success on the field etc., I don't know how I could expect him to do it all without my help. I research showcases and camps for him to attend. I line up instructors and trainers.
I ship off his High School Schedule and I e-mail updates to potential colleges, as well as setting up un-official visits. I have become sensitive too though,
as to the pitfall of being perceived as an overbearing problematic Father
who may be more baggage attached to a talented Son than a College Coach wishes to deal with. I have backed off a bit.
We work hard at keeping God foremost in his life. His focus is on the game, and his grades and a little spare time for socialization.
Yes, when July 1st (?) has passed after his Junior year, and recruiters or scouts are able to approach him directly, the ball is in his glove. I will do my best to not speak on his behalf. He is growing into a capable young man, able to handle many of his own affairs.