Well, your not suppose to talk to other schools and they are not suppose to talk to you until you ge the release. But if you happen to mention it to a friend that they are going to ask for it and a friend mentions it to another friend,...well the gossip vine works in baseball too.
But basically what he did was after he got the official release call some of the other schools that were initially interested in him to see what their situation was. Also he called a scout that had asked him about signinh out of high school real low in the draft and he told him that there were a few schools where he would be glad to say a few words to the coach about him, I think that helped....and also there were some websters that will real good into passing some suggestions and contacts (very supportive.
He ended up at a school that had wanted him initially and to be honest I was worried about the whole process but my son is a confident young man and said he would find a place to play and he worked at it and did..its kind of like going through the whole process again.
Don't let things look bleak, I can tell you from experience I too wondered what went wrong because he was so sure of his initial decision. But he does say in retrospect that it was a good experience and he really learned some good study skills there..so they bring something positive out of the experience. I see you are in Florida too if you want to sent a PM, maybe I can tell you about some of the different schools....
sampb