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Originally posted by swingdoctor14:
Despite my handle ~ changing these kids swing is the last thing on my list concerning my quest to educate coaches. It has to do with teaching kids about the game and how to be a team mate all the while getting better everyday and understanding how the game should be played. Screaming accross the park at Little Bobby and demeaning him, so everyone in the stands knows that Coach knows how it should have been played, is not the way to get it done. Yelling at umpires over every little mistake they make is useless. Learning to overcome these mistakes is something they can take with them for life as well as learning not to blame others. These kids will be Dads - Husbands - Grandfathers - etc. at a much higher percantage than professional baseball players. Teach them how to be young MEN.
The wins will take care of themselves.
This weekend I will attend my college alumni game. I feel forever fortunate to have played under one of the greatest men I've ever known....Pat Malcheski.
During my playing days, there were times I didn't understand why he would let somethings happen when I knew it was wrong in regards to mechanics, concepts, or technique...........
Each year, when the last game was over, I remember the things he would leave us with. Especially this, as he would say..........
"Boys, I don't care if you ever excel in this game. There are two things that you boys can do that will make me more proud than any baseball accomplishment you ever recieve. If you live to become good husbands and good fathers, those are the only two things I care for you to accomplish."
For whatever reason, these words have stuck with me more than any other advice I've ever recieved.
When the vast majority of parents out there realize that the game of baseball is so much more than mechanics, accomplishments, or venues.............Then and only then will their children gain the most they possibly can from this sport.