LUVBB,
I got ya but I couldn't resist!
On son's only two official visits, when HC coaches said they liked my son, before the offer, Mr. TPM asked why. He knew the recruiting coaches liked him, had seen him play, but wanted to know what teh HC's had to say, both had never seen him play.
I do beleive there is a right time and place to ask questions. That's JMO.
The poster was looking for advice as to respond to the letters. Parents and players have to know, most likely most have not seen him play at this time. The purpose of the letter is to send info about their program and gather info about your son, because the NCAA says you can now do it (junior year). And the recruit and his family need to understand, the time has come to let those questionaires you return to do it's talking, by getting involved in showcases, tourneys, camps, where those sending letters can see your son play.
Integrity in the recruiting process was important for us as well as for son, but that comes later.
Some schools mail because it's advertising and marketing, the more you see their name in front of you, the more you will take notice of their program and become interested. If by chance, you become high on their list, you will have done your homework, as they might have done theirs. We knew nothing about Clemson, it was not one of teh programs my son ever considered early in HS. They obviously did a good job in making us aware of their program.
In other words, their advertising worked!
One more thing, you can get dozens of letters, multiple ones as well, phone calls, but the bottom line is the offer.