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My son is a three sport athlete and is a sophmore in HS. He has played Varsity football, JV basketball and plays both JV & Varsity baseball and select ball in the summer. In short he is very tired. He called for a family meeting last night at 10:30 after having played the whole JV game at 4:00 and DH'd in the Varsity game at 7.
I have read many post that have touched my heart when your sons have decided to stop playing baseball. Everything flashed before my eyes and thoughts raced through my mind about what could be a family meeting problem. My son looked beat up and he still had two hours of homework to do. He announced to us that he had given this alot of thought and in the last two years he had not progressed at baseball the way he should and he could tell in his hitting & pitching and he had to make a change. He wanted to get our thoughts to see we minded if he stopped playing football and basketball and just focused on baseball for the next 2 years. He loves basketball and he holds a record in field goals distance average in our state, however, I felt a sense of relief. As parents we want our sons to make these types of decisions on their own, however, it was nice to know that we did not have to talk to him about it this summer, but I am so glad he picked baseball to stay with but sad I won't see him pplay in the other sports. OK, I have now realized I am selfish but dang do I love baseball!
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Don't be sad---you have a young man who is maturing and making decisions--right or wrong they are his decisions--- let him run with it as far as he can


Tell him I wish him the best


Let me add this--my son was headed to the varsity basketball team as a sophomore touted as the best point guard they had ever had--he gave it up to concentrate on his love--BASEBALL---played major Division I ball and got his degree
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Originally posted by allaboutbaseball:
I am so glad he picked baseball to stay with but sad I won't see him play in the other sports. OK, I have now realized I am selfish but dang do I love baseball!


Allabout, we had the same basic meeting last year. When my son went baseball-only (giving up football), it was a sad day for me but perhaps one of the happiest days of my wife's life.

It's OK to be a little selfish...it's a survival instinct that we all have.

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he had given this alot of thought ... and he had to make a change


Do you realize how impressive that is? A sophomore in HS? Wow. Very mature...I bet he does great (in baseball and in life).


Good luck,

Mike F

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