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I found this site at the end of 2021, after my son’s first full season in majors. I was finally at the point that I felt like talking baseball again.

As a parent of a sports first kid that wasn’t highly interested in academics, who wasn’t recruited out of HS but managed to get himself to the MLB by disregarding most of my advice, I have a unique perspective of parental ineptitude through the entire process.

I’ve enjoyed sharing stories with many on this site, and there’s a wealth of information here in the archives and with the very knowledgeable regulars. However, as a recent post has mentioned, there really isn’t much in the way of new parents working their way through the process or needing help. It seems to be mostly venting, and I find myself getting sucked in and disappointed in myself for the time suck.

Feel free to IM me any time, but I’m going to take a break from the site for a while.

Thank you all, and for those of you who still have horses in the race, wishing y’all a fantastic season.

-Bill  

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Yes, I agree.  I am one of the newer parents.  It does seem that there aren’t many new parents on here.  I’m not even sure if there is another parent of a 2027 like I have.  I have gotten a tremendous amount of help from a number of people which I feel has put me in a good position as my 2027 progresses.  I do wish there were more active members.  It would be nice if there was someone here in western pa as well.

I just had to jump in here I am the parent of a 2027. BUT my son is not a D1 prospect or pro prospect. He's not  6' plus or hard throwing. How do you best help your kid then they are basically swimming up stream to be the best player they can be.

I honestly feel intimidated posting regular HS kid run of mill issues. The crowd can be a bit tough here. We are not a super competitive HS. School ball at the JV level is very disappointing. My son is a bubble player in some regards he was a  JV starter last year and by outside assessment maybe a local D3 prospect. He's spent some years on the travel B team and more recently some years on a higher level  travel team.

I do read quite a bit here and my questions have been answered with respect and honesty.

One of my current issues with my son is trying to figure whether he wants to play in college or not. I think deep down he doubts himself and is trying to figure how passionate he actually is about baseball.

Also how to get him competitive at the bats and lots of exposure to off speed pitching to prepare for a competitive summer schedule while he plays in a very mediocre HS league where the pitching will be 10-15 mph slower.

Lastly how to build arm strength and improve throwing mechanics. What is best at 16 for a catcher? Long toss,  weighed balls, jaeger bands, throwing a football, working out at the gym etc.

If there are any other lurkers here with HS kids feel free to share.

One last observation is I think the travel ball culture is so geared towards selling the possiblity of the college baseball experience that it's not about developing the HS player to have a quality HS experience while having fun doing it.

Also a long time lurker with a 2027.  Don't post often since there is so much information on the site already and I can generally get my questions answered.  Some of the historical posts are dated (10 - 15 years old) and I wonder sometimes how much things have changed, but generally find all of it to be sound advice.  All that said, happy to network with other current HS parents and share the ride!

If you read older threads, you see that there have always been years when there were only a few active high school posters, and other years when there were a lot.  Just recently, there are a lot of '24s,  (current college freshmen), but only a few '23s, a ton of '22s, far fewer '21s, etc.  (I love this site for many reasons, and I keep my own list of this stuff).

I agree that there is a lot of information in the archive, but what I hate more than anything is when someone replies to a poster with "look at the archive".  Everyone's situation is different.  I think when an active high school player or parent posts a question, it gets a lot of answers - and I too wish there were more such questions.  But, even the venting for various reasons is valuable to someone who wants more examples about how things work.

Google often shows this site when you put a question about high school and college baseball.

JucoDad, your posts have provided a lot of sanity, and I have appreciated them.

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