In a previous thread I mentioned that I watched many a practice from afar. Now, turn back the clock. I remember when I was playing HS sports, and trust me when I say, I owned the bench, unanimous All-State mop-up. I can remember my Dad watching practices from a distance, he knew that game day I was not going to have much time between the lines, and this was his chance to see me practice mine and his favorite game. I was never so proud when I saw him making an effort when he knew I didn't have a lot to bring to the table. Practice, was the time he watched me play.
The one thing about this board is that 90% of the members have kids who are the cream of the crop. Very seldom do we hear the opinions/feelings of the bench warmers parents. Sure, we can say we root for those kids when they get a chance, but I doubt we seldom put ourselves in the shoes of those Moms/Dads. I'll bet most here are even a little uncomfortable when the parents of those players come up after a game and congratulate you on your sons play and you know all their kid did was shag foul balls the whole game.
Here's an exercise for the parents of those kids who are always on the field.
Put on the shoes of the parent whose son does not get the AB's/innings, does not play travel ball, will not do anything but maybe adult rec beyond HS, but gives 110% at all times, and loves the game.
Now.....
If you were that parent, would your attitude toward supporting your son be different?
IMHO, it's a whole different look on the situation. I mentioned there was a group of us that sat way back and watched practices, I did not mention that 3 of those Dads kids did not get to play often. They left those practices feeling pretty good about their boys, and I felt even better about them as Dads.
Sometimes you have to jump out of your box to find out there are other boxes out there.
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