It is often posed on here that HS baseball isn't that important. Or completely irrelevant. No, not by all, but certainly by some. I'd like to offer a different view with an example to back it up.
I don't know how to tell this story without talking about our younger son, but make no mistake, its not meant to be about him. He's just an example.
Our younger son is a 5-10 RHP, touches 90, but sits in the high 80s (86-88 would be normal for him). In HS, the sat in the 85-86 ranges, maybe touching 88. Following an 11-0 junior season, he was nearly cut from the area HS all star team because the organizing coach from another part of the area didn't see any value in a tiny pitcher with a mid-80s fastball - until the other area coaches told him 'No way, he's the best guy out there.' He never appeared on any prospect list and he attended only one showcase which garnered no college attention whatsoever.
Following an All American junior season in college pitching in the Pac12, which was within a hair of being perfect, he was not drafted and did not appear on any pre-season All American lists. After another successful senior college season, he was drafted late (23rd round) as a senior and is currently in double-A pitching quite well...and headed to the AZ Fall League - no small accomplishment. No one can doubt anymore, that he's good, really good.
So how did he get 'discovered' and why, out of HS, did he even get the chance? He fits no mold, so why?
I was talking with one of his college coaches yesterday, one of two college coaches (the other being infield dad's son who also recruited him to another college) that somehow figured it out. But how?
Here's what his ex-college coach said: It took some work on my part, I listened to what his HS coach said about his command, his intelligence on the mound, his competitiveness and the fact that he was a good person. I listened to other HS coaches in the area and they said the same things. I watched him, and then I watched him some more. I also saw how well he did in HS. HS performance matters no matter what others say and he played in a good league. Dean Stotz was a very smart baseball coach and he once told me, 'Don't get fixated on velocity, watch what the hitters do, they will tell you.' And so thats what I did. He checked all the boxes except velocity, but everything else checked. And so I convinced our head coach that it was worth it.
I also tell you that our son did in fact play on an elite travel team. On that team were four future 1st round picks. And so he got seen - but only once did his future college coach from above see him on that team. His future college saw him 6, 7 or 8 times on his HS team including after he was signed, I suppose to reinforce that he was good enough. His travel coach absolutely backed up the HS coach's assessments - or repeated them on his own. No question that helped too. But the college coach only talked about the HS team and coach. It simply cannot be ignored.
This post is not about knocking travel teams. It is about not ignoring your son's HS team. It seems from the comments above that HS matters. That being a good person within your HS program matters. That being recommended by your HS coach, and others in the area...matters.
Don't ignore the importance of HS baseball. Yes, it can be tough to deal with sometimes, but it is not irrelevant. Our son would not have even gotten the chance if not for his HS coach and his HS baseball experience.