I don't understand Coaches who don't want to talk to their players at the HS and/or college level. I do understand those same coaches not wanting to talk to parents.
I don't understand how coaches can not have a system of communication established at the HS/College level to communicate with parents. I agree that college coaches almost always are unapproachable but that doesn't mean that they don't need a way to communicate with parents. My child's coach sends out a handout outlining everything. I think he is more organized than most. My child was recently hurt. He came over after the game with the trainer to talk to my wife and I. For HS Coaches, you have to communicate with parents. As I've outlined several times, I wanted the AD involved and the player of the parents to be in the meeting. However, I didn't have a problem after that with having the meeting.
I don't understand some parents rooting against other players on the same team. Yes, there are some players that might not be your pick for BBFs for your child. Still, they are on the team. At the same time, they only root for their child. As I have often stated, many parents would rather their child be All State than to win state.
I don't understand why HS Coaches have to be fundraisers. That has evolved into a critical part of the job. In fact, I know of coaches who have been asked in interviews just how they will raise money and how much they can raise. I'm a coach and not a fundraiser.
I don't understand why some Umpires have to be "the show." This trend seems to be developing more and more. I know tremendous umpires and am friends with most. They are never noticed. Most of them get state tournament games and there is a reason for that. Now, we seem to have these guys doing crazy stuff. One example that I saw the other day was a fly ball to right and the right fielder catches the ball. Takes a couple of steps before crashing in to the fence. The plate umpire steps out on the catch in front of the plate, raisers his right arm and declares the out. He does so loudly and dramatically. The other team had runners on the move and so, one crossed the plate. The other was somewhere rounding 3rd. As the RF hit the fence, the ball fell out. I believe it to be a catch. The plate umpire screams out no catch. The defensive team was headed off of the field and the base-runner rounding 3rd never touched home plate. Home plate umpire does not know this and base umpire does not know this and so, run is counted. In short, this was a debacle. Why?
I'll leave this open and some others can contribute some things that they don't understand.