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Sluggo,
I’m a moderator...so allow me to moderate. I see you’re a new member and want to welcome you to the HSBBW. Thanks for asking the question. I hadn’t heard of the incident with Mrs. Biggio. Thanks to FrankF too for the “Rest of the story”. Going back to the first part of the thread I can see why you felt the way you do. To compound matters you’re a new member and probably feel a little intimidated about venturing out and asking a question. A few weeks back I challenged new members to ask questions and explained there were no dumb questions. I also challenged us old times to make those new members feel good that they had asked. Sorry...I still think it's a good plan. We members of the HSBBW (new and old) have to understand the public forum like the HSBBW is at the mercy of whoever chooses to “click on”. To defend some of the old timers like myself, we have read many posts that are carefully planned to touch a nerve with others...and we jump. I know in this particular instance that was not the intent. On the HSBBW message boards we ALL have to give the others the benefit of the doubt. If we get involved in one-upmanship, we all lose. This board is about young players, their families, their game of baseball and how to make their time from youth baseball to the major leagues as great as it can be, even if it ends prematurely.
We will always have “conflicts” because we all have different personalities and we all have the floor at the same time. To make this thing work like it has for many years, we all have to step back at times...take a deep breath, and say.........nothing at all.
Thanks,
Fungo
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I don't understand why TRhit always gets a pass on his behavior? I have see people who post here that get hammered for saying far less than TR says on a regular basis. I AM FROM TEXAS, AND TR HAS PICKED FIGHTS WITH MOST OF US THAT ARE FROM THIS GREAT STATE. When will TR be held to the same set of standards as the rest of us?

Come on MN-MOM make him pay for all the stuff that he starts.
txdad06,
Exactly! I appreciate your example. Thanks for reinforcing the point I'm trying to make. I go through all this explaining about all these different personalities and how we have to accept people as they are and right off the bat you want everyone to act like a Texan???? noidea
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Fungo!!!!!

Act like a TEXAN?

Just accept me as I am. I don't like the way a particular person talks to me or others, so I decided to say something about it. Am I wrong? NO! I will not sit back and let TR take his pot shots! Take me for who I am, or don't talk to me!

itsinthegame... I will visit where I choose to visit thank you! I have no problem with people from any state, my problem is with people who use this forum to take pot shots at others.


You all have read TR's posts and while some of them are very informative, he doesn't have the right to say some of the things he does!!!!
txdad06

Not piling on and I get your point. I get Fungo's point too. I think he means that the board is made up of folks with all sorts of frames of reference and we (me included) should take the info for what it is and just strain it through a "tone filter"

TR has the right to say it. We may not like how he says it but a little less sensitivity to the tone is required. I throw my self in that pile as well.

Personaly, I thought Sluggo, like Mrs. Biggio, needlessly took a shot to the back of the head. Don't let it bother you.

By the same token if a posters profile lacks proper retnal scans, family lineage, residential or employment history for the last decade then so be it. I guess if that is commented on for the 475th time then so be that as well, as tedious as that is.

It's a message board. It is what it is. Take the information, give the information, laugh along, just don't take it personally. Merely suggestions.
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Dad04...

I agree with ALL of your post! But you have to agree that the double standard does exist. If we let people say harsh things to others and let them slide because "that's just the way he/she is" then we are enabling that person. Everyone in here should be held to the same high standard, no matter what your name is or who you are.
txdad06
I do agree that some posts would offend MOST parts of the free world, maybe not all though.

Yes, I know for a fact new posters, lots of parents and PLENTY of kids have asked a question, gotten a harsh answer and never posted again. That's a shame.

I just don't know how to legistlate manners.

I suppose you can feel free to comment directly on a harshly toned, or wise assed comment. Just be prepared for the inevitable harshly worded retort, then just leave it at that.
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I have nothing against texans or any other state people except when they cast aspersions on Northeasterners or ask for help and them dont want to tell me who they are. I am quite proud of what we have in the Northeast and I do take umbrage with those who look down their nose at us

I never asked for a pass in my life--NEVER EVER- perhaps when I get one I have earned it--I don't know- I have said this before --I am who I am but I ALSO KNOW WHO AND WHAT I AM--many others don't--

Texan -your last post is totally out of line regarding "limits" and money--- Hey --I tell you what-- I will stop contributing (taking ad space) and then I will be fair game for all--I am big boy--I think I can handle it and there will be no money involved thus I might be down on your level at least in your eyes--will that make the "eyes of texas shine upon me" as just "another" posting member? LOL
We haven't had one of these threads since....well last year at this time. I have seen the trend, when baseball season ends, the sniping begins. Where is limom84 when you need her?

Seriously, I would rather have the power to ignore those I don't care for than have a group policy on who can and cannot speak and what they should or should not say.

I have found this much to be true. No matter how sincere you are, how well-meaning you are, how good-mannered you are, how well-spoken you are, how saintly you are, there will be someone out there who does not care for you or care for what you have to say. I like Dad04's take - It is what it is.
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Agree.

Wwwwwaaaaayyyyy too many people take things PERSONALLY.

Agree or disagree.


Beenthere

Throw in the recruiting stress/mess on top and you get an odd brew. I've "been there too" Man I remember "blowing off some steam" on this board as my 42 year old sister lay dying from some freaky rare desease while my kid was was flying around the country on official visits. I was "out there" sometimes.

txdad06
I'm not saying you are blowing off steam. All I'm saying is keep in mind the things and those that matter most. JMO
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CD

I can tell you that what you say is true--my entire life I have been outspoken--no candy coating and no BS-- some love me and others love to hate me and on the internet they can hate me without me even knowing who they are.

But if you are on my team you have a guy who goes thru walls for you and won't back down and I try to teach that to our kids--you cant please them all
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txdad06
I do agree that some posts would offend MOST parts of the free world, maybe not all though.

Yes, I know for a fact new posters, lots of parents and PLENTY of kids have asked a question, gotten a harsh answer and never posted again. That's a shame.

I just don't know how to legistlate manners.

I suppose you can feel free to comment directly on a harshly toned, or wise assed comment. Just be prepared for the inevitable harshly worded retort, then just leave it at that.


I believe that is the question being presented...someone made a crude reply, he got called on it...and now, the one who called him on it is getting the third degree...while the longtime gruff poster (full of baseball knowledge) "skates". Even Mr. Fungo, who is highly respected, gets a jab in to continue the pile on (want us all be like Texans? Frown). If we are expected to let him carry on and accept it with a "tone filter", then we don't need the "play nice police" running in when someone gives it back to him.
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If we are expected to let him carry on and accept it with a "tone filter", then we don't need the "play nice police" running in when someone gives it back to him.


I agree with that. Call a spade a spade if you want, knowing it falls on deaf ears. However it could be appropriate and useful when a new poster is getting slammed headfirst into the turnbuckle, to let them know, as Fungo did to Sluggo, that most folks here are less, what was it, outspoken--no candy coating and no BS and that it's OK to hang around and post.
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Not that anyone cares, but I just want to say I was appalled at the replies sluggo received. If you look carefully, really, how many new posters show up and hang on here? Not many. In many ways, the HSBBW is a closed society. I have no suggestions on how to open it up - that haven't been made already.

You'll often see posts from newer members which go almost completely unanswered. Then you'll see a post - almost identical - by a more established member, and suddenly everyone all's over it, fawning, and the replies pile up.

It can be a hostile environment to newcomers, and who knows what great new members we're losing by not keeping the light on for them.

That's all I wanted to add - I'm sure it's more than enough.
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To all the Texans

I wont respond to any of your posts after this--you guys are too darn sensitive to the posted word

Beenthere

What would they have done if they saw you and I go at years back--nothing but opinions and personal beliefs--and today I consider you to be one on my good friends from this site--nothing we ever said between us was ever taken personal-- now everything you post gets twisted and taken personal.

By the way TEXAN-- every day I have is a great day because I am fortunate to be having them-- God has looked out for me and given me additional time on this earth--in fact right now I am looking at 42 years I wasn't supposed to have--
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