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Mostly a lurker on this site, taking in as much as I can from all you folks who have been down the road ahead of me. Hopefully as my son makes his way through HS ball, God willing, I can add some value as I gain some experience. But I come now seeking advice.

My son is a young 2012 freshman. He has played 3b most of his travel career pre-HS. His school is very deep at this grade, a lot of talent. He made the team and they have moved him to catcher – he has progressed very nicely at this position and it may be in his HS future. He has always been a very good hitter and an RBI machine, and he has not missed a beat in that area moving to high school. He is a good, solid ballplayer - not flashy, not very outgoing, just continues to get the job done, drive in the runs, and help his pitchers. He does a very good job behind the plate, several of the pitcher’s dads have commented on his play and have said their son’s prefer when my son is catching. Those are good compliments to him in my opinion.

I found out a local travel team had an opening due to an injury. My son got a tryout with the head coach, indoor about 45 minutes. He did a nice job, the coach said he looked good, hit the ball well, etc. etc. He still had a few more players to look at and he will let us know. I have no idea what competition he is up against for this slot, but I am trying to not get my hopes up too much. Playing on this team will be a huge benefit to my son’s development. So my question, would it be inappropriate for me to contact the coach and do some - for lack of a better word - “promoting” of my son? Tell him a little how his HS season is going, offer to give him his coach’s e-mail address for additional feedback? I do not want to do this in a bragging sort of way, that’s not my nature. Nor do I want to come across as the “dad who thinks his son is the best 14 yo ballplayer to walk the face of the earth”. I generally do not talk to his coaches. I have said “HI” to his HS baseball coach twice this year as we walked past eachother.

My intention here would be to just add a little to his thought process, he has only seen him for 45 minutes indoors, hard to make a real determination. Is it wrong to go in this direction or should I just let it ride and wait until he contacts us regarding his decision.

Thanks in advance!
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InTheGap12 - welcome to the hsbbweb! Smile

Very nice post!

IMHO, it won't hurt for you to contact the coach. If you present your case like you did in your posting here, I am sure it will come across the right way to him.

On the other hand, whether or not that will influence him in any way (hopefully positive) is a fair question imho. I suggest putting yourself into the shoes of a coach. How would you react if a parent called about their son? If you lurked around here for any length of time, you should have noticed lots of self-promotion (hype) going around Big Grin Do you believe all the stories you read on these boards?

Either way, I think if you present your case in a respectful and humble manner like you have posted here, it just might help your son. He might also reflect on the competition which might influence your decision to even be on the team in the first place.
Last edited by ClevelandDad
Inthegap12,
I understand your reluctance to come across as "hyping" your son. Some of us reserved types have seen so many over-the-top dads that we go to the opposite extreme to avoid being perceived in that manner. Assuming you are convinced that this is the right program and coach for your son, I would suggest you contact the coach and without saying anything yourself about your son say something like this:
"thanks for the opportunity for a try-out, in our excitement we neglected to give you his HS coach's e-mail address or phone number should you want references". Nothing wrong with following up after what is basically a youth version of a job interview.
If your son does not make the team tell him it's not a judgement of his ability to play or how he matches up against the rest of the roster. Since it was a one player tryout, the decision will be based on need. And you don't know if the best available freshman in America is also getting a tryout on another day.

To quote my son's travel coach, "If ARod Jr shows up, if he doesn't pitch I don't need another player."

How about having your son call the coach? This shows desire to be on the team. It shows dad doesn't play agent.
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Thanks for all the great advice... still not sure what I will do. I would love to have my son give the coach a call. I think I will talk to him about that.

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If your son does not make the team tell him it's not a judgement of his ability to play or how he matches up against the rest of the roster

RJM - there is no doubt about it! Aside from the fact I have no idea about any of the players on this team or the kids vying for the open spot.

We will see how it goes, we should know by the weekend.

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