Our son plays at a D1 school in a major conference (top three in the country). I changed my handle and email for this post because some know me and you could identify the school/coach. I don’t think that’s fair until I can hear their side of the story.
This is isn’t a disgruntled parent complaining about playing time, he’s played plenty. It’s safe to say his season has been below expectations (coach and his). The last few weeks he hasn’t played much and he shouldn’t have, he’s been slumping and not helping the team.
My issue is not about baseball it’s about how this baseball program and the university has handled a long-term medical condition.
I need advice on how to address this situation. I need to do so without the anger, frustration and emotion I have in me now.
Two days before he left for school he had stomach issues. He went to our family doctor who told him to get a colonoscopy because my wife has Crohn’s disease and his symptoms are similar. We didn’t have time to get it done at home he was leaving for school in three days.
Within a few days after being back at school he had more issues and went to the trainer. In our opinion his situation has not been handled properly. I requested a timeline of his medical issues and treatment. Here is the cliff notes version of what took place-this came from the trainer.
A few days after returning to school (Jan 24 ) he reports to trainer with issues. Sent to University doctor on Jan 25, put on anti-inflammatory medication. Trainer said his condition was effecting his baseball. They said they started the procedure for colonoscopy – not true - my wife got involved and demanded it. Our doctor sent paperwork to get the test done
March 19th – 54 days later he has the procedure. Trainer said they had to work it in with his school and baseball schedule? Inflammation and small ulcers on colon. Not ruling out Crohn’s want a capsule endoscopy. Sorry about being graphic.
March 23rd trainer talks to son about scheduling next test. Says my son wants to delay it. Of course he does, starting and batting over .350 last 18 games. Never should have been given the option. Dont care if he's 20, this isn't a sprained ankle.
April 2 trainer says has not heard from our son so starts process to schedule next test. Why did you wait? ‘
Capsule Endoscopy performed May 14th! Another 51 days between tests! Need week to get results.
It’s been 118 days since his health issues started and still no diagnosis and treatment. He has lost 15lbs since this started. Our son been using over the counter medication to get through games and practices. Trainer said he’s not been self medicating, they have been treating his symptoms. I asked in an email how and with what. Have not received a response - that as four days ago.
My wife and I are so frustrated. We don’t know how to address this situation. Concerned with going to coach for explanation – will he take it out on your son next year – distinct possibility?
What would you do?
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