WestCoastPapa' current thread raised a question for me, that I would love input from the group on. When a school invites a player to come on campus for an UV -- not a "if you are in the area, stop by" invitation (not that there are anything wrong with those) but instead "please come visit we'd really like to show you around," and the plan is for the HC and RC to be there for the visit -- and the school is out-of-state, and they know there will be considerable effort and expense for the kid coming for a UV . . . well, how common is it for the school to extend an offer on that kind of UV?
If it's a local school, it seems like no big deal, but if there are flights and hotels involved it seems to me the school ought to be serious about the kid (or, if not, then my conclusion would be they do not practice the golden rule).
Any thoughts or experiences on this topic?