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After one full academic year and one COVID-shortened season, our son decided to transfer from his DII school.  The baseball experience was good.  There were a couple disappointments (roster size and the shortened season), but he traveled with the team to the few road games they did play and seemed to be on track to be a contributor as a LHP in the coming seasons.  He enjoyed baseball but unfortunately the school was not the best fit academically or socially for him.  We did our due diligence but sometimes you just don’t know until you experience it.

 He gave it one year per his NLI commitment, but decided that he does not want to stay put just to play baseball and is transferring to a DI school where he will try to walk on after one “year in residence”.  He knows it’s a long shot, especially given the current status of baseball rosters due to the pandemic.  So it seems that his college playing career is likely over.

I wanted to thank everyone on HSBBWB who listened and helped along the way - particularly Fenwaysouth (“As always, JMO” 😊)!  Also, thanks to Rick at Informed Athlete who helped us with transfer and eligibility rules.  Rick was very responsive and knowledgeable, and we recommend his services.

Like many other parents on this board who ultimately face the inevitable end of their son’s baseball journey, it has been difficult for my wife and me to accept.  We’re really sad that most likely we will not see him play in a college game.  I am going to take a little sabbatical from HSBBWB just so I don’t think about college baseball for a while.  I need to come to grips that this is his decision!  We are very blessed that he is healthy and a good student with his life ahead of him.

Thanks again and best of luck to everyone!

Q

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Thanks.  When we were able to work through financial aid and gave him the green light to transfer to the new school, he was soo happy!  That was a good moment.  We trusted him to make the right decision because he earned it in the classroom and gave it a fair chance for a full year.  Shows you that baseball is very important, but it's not everything.  It was pretty clear that he was not enjoying that environment and baseball on its own was not enough.   Pretty confident the new university will be a better fit for him and better academics for his chose major.  He leaves Thursday and is very excited. 

Q,

Best of luck to you and your son at his next stop.    Just because it didn't work out doesn't mean it was a bad thing.   The silver lining is he probably knows more about what he wants to do and where he wants to spend his future time.  Maybe this change will re-ignite his passion for baseball  or maybe he'll find something new to be passionate about.  It is all in his hands.   My youngest son who had D3 offers ended up going to a middle sized D1 University as a regular student.  He loved baseball but found a major life passion with fishing.   He joined the University fishing club that travelled to places for fly fishing, ocean and lake fishing.  He also joined an ultimate frisbee club that competed against other colleges in the area.   I didn't see either of these things coming, but he loves doing them.    He's in the military now, and his #1 off duty activity is fishing.

Again, I wish your family the best going forward.   Good luck and don't be a stranger!

W

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Sorry to  hear about your son and his decision but there is a positive side.  He has experienced and been a part of college baseball, something many high school players have never experienced.  Learning to be a team player, contributing, time management, etc are valuable every day characteristics.  When son was a kid we met a few dads who were ex-college players.  Son was in total awe, didn't matter what division, stats, or how long.  That person played in college and that was good enough for him (and me).

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