My 3rd son and I had a discussion today regarding what should be acknowledged with a Varsity Letter.
From His Perspective: He works quite hard on his general physical conditioning and his skill sets for his various sports. In short he's lettered 3 sports per year for his first 3 years in HS which, while not easy and not without strong dedication, was largely supported by his natural physical and mental gifts. He expressed a value that the "letter" should be rewarded to those that are able to significantly help the team on the field.
My Prospective: There are many not as physically blessed, perhaps even physically challenged, but contribute to the overall team success as much if not more than any individual player. I believe that HS sports programs (as opposed to summer competitive teams) have many purposes not the least of which is developing team work, self dedication and discipline, balancing one's time and effort, etc.
My actual case is a dedicated young man who played a lot of baseball as a youngster but got delt a bad hand in life and needed a double hip replacement as a sophomore. He has had a rough recovery and post op rehab but makes every off season workout. Its clear he won't play Varsity in his remaining two years but exhibits all those characteristics that I believe HS sports are all about. I'd like to make him a "team manager/trainer" allowing him to assure equipment and practices are ready to go, as well as working out with the team as time permits, and make him eligible for a letter. But I don't want to devalue the effort of those guys who work hard to make first team and get it done on the field.
I'm intersted in opinions and will just print the reponses unadulterated for my 18 yr old son.
Thanks
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